Nevertheless, this rule is so ...

However, this rule is so firmly seated at the head of each free girl, which leads to such calls as the one that I led at the outset. Try to trace the origins of the ban. Remember when we were young and beautiful nonsense bear, mom told us that all men regardless of age or status need only that (at this point mom scary eyes bulge, and made a meaningful pause), so as soon as they get, the prospect of relations Woman becomes very hazy. However, I still can not grasp what to do with those that spoil the statistics, young men who still want to build a long relationship where sex plays an important, but it is not the main role. And what to do with the instinct of procreation, also called sexual attraction, which is not unique to the male half of humanity? These questions have no clear answer as there is no single answer to the question of whether to sleep with a man on a first date. In the end, nature has given us - women - the vaunted intuition, and here is precisely the moment comes to take her on all cylinders. Look into the eyes of a young man liked you, listen to his words and try to understand: he may, in principle, not set up anything more than a one-time connection and no matter whether there will be this relationship on a first date or third. Maybe between you slipped past the spark and this meeting could become, you never know in this great love? So what can wait and play some strange game? Surrender to the will of the feelings and emotions - is also a great happiness that you deserve. Well, that's exactly what happened. It does not matter whether the first date or third, you were together, had a lovely few hours in bed, and voila - you are at home. What should I do now? The first desire - call, write SMS, send an e-mail and, finally, just to shout to the world that you are happy. But you can not. There is a notorious ban on this same call. Do not call him first, show conspicuous indifference promarinuy. And now she sits by the phone, hypnotizing him with his eyes, not knowing that the other end of town sits at least experiencing a young man, who also suffers. And all because (I'll tell you a terrible secret) that they too have that stupid ban on the first call! On Love In nature there are no statistics to support or refute the feasibility of following the rules. I can not interview the hundreds of families, half of which I for one will say that they are together only because on the first date she slammed the door in front of her husband's nose. Also I do not know how many relationships have not happened because of the fact that one followed the rules, and the second took it for indifference. Sex - it's not just a physiological act, it is primarily an act of love. And when we talk about love, we must listen to the heart. And of course, a little head to think. Here, perhaps, two concrete rules that I follow in this life.