For men - the son, brother-protector, the knight-hero and a father.

American psychotherapist Alexander Lowen has identified four major sex roles, which were prepared men and women of modern civilization. They correspond to the four stages of development of each person. For women it is the role of daughter, sister, a romantic ideal and a mother. For men - the son, brother-protector, the knight-hero and a father. At each stage of development of man mastering the new role and then, ideally, should incorporate all of them. He then formed into a coherent mature person who can fully unfold in sex and enrich sexual life partner. But when human life manages the complex, he may unknowingly get stuck on any one role and play it all my life. Preference for a loving relationship, a role is worth this or that children attempt to hide their sexuality in order to avoid conflict with parents. But an adult has nothing to fear. Realizing this, and looked to his complex "in the eye, you can break free from his influence and enjoy a full sex life. Maybe not all want it. Some manage to find the right fit: for example, men-sons often unknowingly take a wife for mothers, brothers - and sisters, etc. But despite all the apparent prosperity is love, where both partners are wearing masks. Although, of course, to be or not to be himself - a personal ... Detail about this in the printed journal. Julia Eidel'kind Source: Journal of Health "№ 10 2004 on the site http://www.zdr.ru/zdr_tmn0410a6.php

Miraculous Prayer

The main protective diploma since the Baptism of Russia have been great, there will be two main prayer: "Our Father" and "Lady." In addition to these miraculous prayer, it is worth mentioning the "Prayer of the last Optina elders, also carrying a force of healing and beneficial effects on man and his health - physical and mental. Our Father, Our Father which art in heaven! Hallowed be thy name, Your kingdom come, Thy will be done on earth as in heaven. Our daily bread give us this day, and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive our debtors. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil, for thine is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen. Hail Mary, Hail, Mary full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou amongst women and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, for Thou hast borne the Saviour of our souls. Amen. Prayer last Optina elders, Lord Give me peace of mind to meet all that will bring me this day. Give me a totally surrender to the will of Thy holy. On this day, every hour throughout instruct and support me. What ever I got the news during the day, teach them to take with calm the soul and the conviction that all the holy be Thy will! In all my deeds and words directed my thoughts and feelings. In all emergencies do not let me forget that all sent down to thee! Teach me the right to act reasonably and with every member of my family, no one was upset, no one confused. Lord! Give me strength to bear difficulties coming day and all the events within it.