Amen.

Directed my will and teach me to pray, hope, faith, love and forgive. Amen.

Himself in the mirror I see the

Young people meet, get married, but their lives under one roof is often not built up ... Often, before the marriage of their elderly relatives parting words: "it is wrong to marry (marry), not knowing how to be parents of the husband (wife), who they are, how life is lived." But who pays attention to these words? Does it matter who he (her) parents and - most importantly, think young people love each other. But sometimes (and unfortunately often the case), that over the years one of the newlyweds know how much a pound of Down and Out, as the husband (or wife) begins to literally dictate how and what to do in the family, and also requires the implementation of these guidelines in a rigid form . Start arguments and quarrels. Time passes, are already closely acquainted with the parents of the second half and then many things become clear ... It turns out that one of them (say, the father) set at naught else - of no objection or her opinion and speech can not be in the family reigns this medieval Domostroy. And if a family of their parents, too, was Domostroy, but everything was exactly the opposite - the head of the family has always been, say, a mother and no father? Moreover, all decisions are made by the mother, of course, kamufliruya them under the general solution with the father - and where to go to rest, and which car to buy, and what kind of furniture ... In a word, at all ... Yes, it's really quite bad ... And here is one of the newlyweds, having experienced the hardships of oppression, in thought - what to do next? How to live? Either put up with all the "flourishes" husband (wife) and take everything as it is to keep the family ... So yes, and to take part ... But deep down in your head raises the question - what would would happen if he had not been rejected by the council of relatives, "not to marry until they know the parents alleged second half? Could it really all so programmed by the environment in one family in which a person was born and raised? Let's deal ... Children grow up in the family and against his will absorb the style of relations between his father and mother, even to the smallest detail - how many times cleaning is carried out and how often to change linen, what tone to discuss any issue and debating at all. And the kid wants it or not - will continue to adhere to this style of relationship in their own family. If the man's father never raised his voice to his wife (mother), it will almost certainly also will receive their son when he grows up and marries. If the girl has grown into a family where the sovereign mistress was his mother, then a young woman will seek to control her husband. Family receives stable when the model of relations, soaked in parent families, more or less the same (on the basic parameters). If not - then the inevitable squabbles and scandals. For instance, if a parent families where the groom grew up, authoritarianism and tyranny reigned husband, father, where the word husband and father was law, and the bride's family, on the contrary, the head of a wife and mother is what you get ... as it is, unfortunately, got many.