Let's look at some of the conditions under which high-behavioral addiction - mythomania. PUNISHMENT some children creates low self-esteem and lack of confidence, the desire to revenge and bitterness. Punishment makes children vent their grievances on the weaker. Punishment creates distraction and cowardice, as well as yabednichestvo, forcing myself to do everything wrong. Punishment - this is only an external factor controlling the behavior. Punishment does not correct the problem of cheating. Permissiveness allows children to various liberties. This means that there is no self-discipline, and hence will not be purposeful. Permissiveness creates the conditions under which the child is unsure of himself, creates conditions for the formation of low self-esteem. In conditions permissive child does not know how to implement themselves for the benefit of a trial to study, does not know his true worth. The climate of permissiveness creates conditions that deception and lies take root. REMUNERATION makes a child suspect. When a child gets used to request and wait for others make him happy. Every time he will be hoping that his every step will be to lift up to heaven and unduly praise or thanks. Reward develops indifference toward others. To reward the children quickly become accustomed, and therefore will look for her, asking for thanks, catering to the more influential. This necessarily gives rise to such an attitude towards life: "And I'm in it for me?" SIGNS OF RECOVERY FROM mythomania: If the child stops to wait for the mercy of others, he should respect himself and others. Is able to defend their rights and to be considerate of others, to be inwardly focused and purposeful. If your son or daughter is beginning to work together with others, as appropriate, to other trusts - which means that his self-esteem is high enough. If a child becomes again a friendly, calm, balanced, confident, having an internal factor control their behavior. If a child learns life on their own experience and make decisions independently. IT'S ALL leaves no room for lies and deceit! To deal with teenage penchant for deception, one must understand that it is as if "between two fires." On the one hand waiting for some peer company decisions, but on the other side - parents who require completely different. Since the opinion of the company in this age for a teenager is more significant than that of adults, so thick scales will weigh it in the direction of their peers. If parents do not want to take, they resorted to tough measures high blood pressure and control against his child, in response to stumble upon a desperate resistance, and lies. Group of parents and adolescents was proposed by a very simple experiment: asked to rate the same statements to clarify the differences and similarities of their assessments. Initially, the difference: with the statement "most teens are busy clarifying and building their relationships with others.
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