Yes, it is customary in most ...

Yes, it is accepted in most Western families, but our mentality is hardly suitable. The total budget - is good, it is - a part of our culture, and attempts to take over the experience of others, usually doomed to failure. We have a division of the budget - this division of the family. Another thing that can determine a certain percentage of the total income is equal for both spouses, which they can spend at their discretion. That percentage, rather than a specific amount. Then, in the case of changes in family income personal "pocket" means each of the spouses will increase or decrease proportionally. This percentage should be determined even if the earner in the family is only my husband. Housework women - is its contribution to the family. And it is equivalent to money that men earn. A dead family member - whether a woman or a man - also has the right to participate in decisions on spending family funds. With this control over the expenditure of major budgetary funds should be made jointly. Completely wrong, when it depends on who is the spouse contributes more. So you can take some of the reasons for conflict. And also will the relative independence of the spouses in the distribution of money that will remove tension. - Not too much is required from a woman? She has to earn the family and still serve as a therapist for her husband? - Yes, a woman in such a situation seriously. Not everyone can withstand such tests. Some are deliberately on the conflict, which leads to the disintegration of the family. But in any case for the psychological climate in the family meets a woman by virtue of its greater flexibility and variability solutions. Yes, it will have to work hard, use some cunning women to resort to the assistance of a psychologist. But if a woman really loves her husband and wants to keep the family together, it always uses all available means to her. It is quite another matter if the woman is experiencing discomfort in the family. Then it tends to self-sufficiency, hoping thereby to escape from family problems. Standing on such a tough stance, it risks losing not only the remnants of sanity and physical health, but also their family. In any case, I would advise not to drive into the conflict. Better in any way to resolve them. After all, women's health is too fragile to bear more burden and psychological problems. Olga Smirnova

Attractive, Beauty, Fashion

Vladimir Ivanov, famous psychic defense mechanism - an offset (shift in emphasis from the perception of the main issues on its symbol - a minor problem) - prepares the mind for further steps - including the mechanism of inversion - turning negative emotions into positive ones. Through this mechanism can be traced causation traumatic (dangerous) and attractive (handsome). For example, the wildlife is both dangerous and attractive. Similarly, the fear at the height when the height of both attractive, the fear of getting lost in the woods of injury due to sharp rocks and branches (which certainly happened, and this fear is hidden from consciousness) makes the forest an attractive and beautiful in their own.