He feels close to her lack of confidence, a certain inferiority of their presence, uselessness, incompetence. That certainly does not strengthen family relationships. - And how to handle this? Maybe go? - Not the fact that this will help. You may grieve the same way and change the situation. Travel will be beneficial only if you'll find a solution to your problem. Must have the courage and boldness and see what's going on with your life. But to do this preferably with the help of a psychologist, not to get caught up in this state even deeper. Try for a few days "fall into a coma." Reinforce your depression. Let your loved one, about anything without asking, and make love to you, as a good nurse. Three days of absolute inaction - both physical and mental - is particularly helpful when depression is superimposed on fatigue. But that is uniquely bad in this situation, so it is to wear a mask. You have to portray people other emotions, to spend the energy, and depression in the meantime only intensified. If possible, limit the communication of the work to take home. Go to dinner alone, and not in the company of colleagues. And takes off his mask in the moments when you have no one sees. How to cope with grief is necessary to realize the cause, try to find out what's going on with you and your life. The whole world is crumbling around, because you left a favorite? Maybe you are tormented by itself alone. And is not that left little importance in general for your life man. You may have idealized it too, only not to be left alone. And this fact need to take and survive, rather than drive out of consciousness. Tosca is always a specific reason. They just have to see, and do not blame the whole world the injustice to himself. And then the hopelessness appears clearance. Take responsibility for sebya.Kazhdy of us has the ability to be happy. Because destiny - it's actually not what happens to you. Destiny - it is a choice, our choice. We choose the life that lead. Now suppose that, having married, you are part of the responsibility for himself, his mood and gave the man. And if something is wrong, then he is guilty, and you fall into a depression you. But is it only the husband should be responsible for you to be happy? Return this part of the responsibility and do something good for yourself. Such emotional independence helps to solve many problems of family life. . Gain control over the situation. Bouts of depression can rob us of confidence. Take control of your feelings until you get the ease of gesture, the ease in the body. Try to see the good even in bad. Love sebya.Depressivnuyu woman is hard to get something done. It has to be negotiated. Tell me: my dear, I love you so much. Let's us now, get up, umoemsya and remove in the closet. We will do everything to you today was good. And yourself praise. And then, in spite of that, we begin to engage each other. Regardless of what mood my husband came, and what is now a relationship with him.
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