In love and success of this pair.

Misalliance It: from a wealthy family of intellectuals, a graduate of the prestigious university, with great prospects for career development and with real success in this business, spoiled by the attention and tangible confirmation of parental love. She: provincial, purposeful, striving for success, energetic. Or rather, he - tearing into the cream of society "commoner," and she - knows no worries and concerns my daughter affluent parents. In general, misalliance, the general belief. Viability of the union: 80 percent. Typically, such alliances are formed for love, at least on one side. As a rule, on the other side, which is of a prosperous family, otherwise these people simply would not have been common. In love and success of this pair. How to strengthen this alliance? It should be very careful with the love of each other and stand apart (geographically, financially and morally) from the primary, ie parent families. Communicating in some circles and evolving in parallel, the partners will be on equal terms to them as stable and happy couple, accustomed surrounding cease to perceive their union as misalliance, and parents from both sides will be forced to accept the choice of their children. But those fortunate offspring of today's elite who are skeptical, not on the calculation of whether the cold and greedy, they were chosen for the marriage, the council this - figured out that (start a surveillance, inspection "interrogations") before the wedding, rather than later, when the marriage has concluded and children are born.

Conflict type of family he: a deep believer. It: the belief an atheist. Or - He: introvert, living our own inner world and She: extrovert, splashed their energy in the world. Or - He: Muslim and She: Catholic. In short, they are very different. Viability of the union: 10-20 percent. They are not looking for each other specifically, they reduce the circumstances: they have known each other since childhood because their parents are friends and they stayed with the 1 st to 11 th grade at the same desk, and they are not one year, worked side by side, and so etc. And they are not married by a burning desire, but under pressure from others or simply out of inertia, underestimating the seriousness of such a step. How to strengthen this alliance? Perhaps it and to strengthen something is not necessary, but on the contrary, it is necessary to disperse, not to spend his entire life on an alien partner. However, if a conflict-free marriage and have children, it makes sense to make efforts so that the family did not break from the dissimilarity of views and interests of spouses. It all depends on how these people tend to compromise and how much they are tolerant to the views of each other. The main thing - do not alter a partner, do not try to reshape it to his measure, does not cover him oxygen, if he wants to speak "in its format. Just need to leave his wife (e) a psychological space where he (she) could (la) would stay itself (a) itself. And if it is mutual, you will live quite happily together 100 years. Natalia Shishkova

Why do we cry?

Kind of a weeping woman no surprise, the woman-to-face to be weak. But why a woman cries, and is always whether her tears - the weakness? We cry in sorrow and in joy, while meeting and parting, in the heat of a family quarrel, with emotion and indignation, fear, and of powerlessness, of the abundance of feelings and of their lack of ...