He knows of her threats, she ...

She knows how to emphasize those features of their appearance, which are really winning. They do not complain about that ugly, they create their appeal. And around really consider them charming and attractive. Here we have a clear relationship: the more positive self-appearance, the more stable self-esteem than self-sustained, the less we depend on the opinions of others, and the less we depend on the opinions of others, the more confident we look like, and more confident than we look, the more attractive is in the eyes of others. Here's a simple logic. Yelena Yegorova, a psychologist

We choose, choose us ...

Which only families not behold. Sometimes it is difficult to imagine how these two, which, I think, overall, it's nothing, can live together, not weeks, not months or even years, and ten years, and divorce is not collected. Can we then say that the formula of "opposites attract" right? Possible. If life and smooth out the contradictions mimic similarity. Hard? And who has promised that it would be easy? The archaic type of family he: a successful leader, earner in the family. It is: pretty, inert, fresh, as a rule, a homemaker. Viability of the union: 60 percent. Why is energetic and socially active men often take his life partner of such "ladies blanched, hard to understand. It may be that really attracts the opposite, in addition, it is always a beautiful girl, that in his youth and young men seem particularly important. But over time, her social and intellectual degradation (not studying, not working and did not seriously involved) makes itself felt, the man begins to change, and in general to actively contact with more meaningful and successful women, and along with younger - in fact his circle of friends is not limited. Houses start at the scandals, tantrums, fits of jealousy that her husband is tired, but does not go away. He knows from its threats, that she did not survive, lost, committed suicide. How to strengthen this alliance? Initially, the man must think, on whom he will marry and what his wife in the future will bring the public when he faces the situation and money. If a girl - Dummy initially does not want to study or work, or develop, then that's hardly count on revolutionary changes in its nature in the future. Therefore, the girlfriend of life to look for girls with a tendency toward personal growth, if you are aiming for self-actualization. Women can also advise not to stop their development at the time of the marriage. To be interesting to her husband and continue, to go with him in the leg. However, such a marriage can be to cement a large number of children (eg, three), not born in a row and at intervals, hospitable home, cats, dogs and other family values. Orthodox-minded men rarely leave even the most "gray" women who managed to twist a cozy nest and bring some adorable chicks-heirs.