Friday, 17 June 2011

From an early age society inspires the boys unacceptability of tears.

Women's tears can be very different - drippings crying Mother Nature, his first love is crying nymphet, nekuplennoy doll girl crying, anxiety emerged the mother's eyes, took the boy into the army, crying from an overabundance of feelings the bride at his own wedding - women's tears may be as different - what may be only the woman herself. Sometimes a tear - this is necessary akqa vita, which gives strength to live on - just to live, to breathe the air, wonder and smile, play and ignore it, hear and feel. Tears, crying as a way of communicating with the world's Lament - this is the first way of communication. For a small child - it's the only way to tell others about their needs, express themselves on the whole wide world. Mum two-month toddler can easily distinguish a hungry, angry, unhappy, scared, summons and other important "laments." Tears running down chubby cheeks and a little cry-baby to learn to communicate. Will be quite some time, and Malyshok cry from their first offenses and disappointments. Perhaps never more than a man would not cry as much wept as a child, but the memories of childhood - as a rule, too, are the happiest ... Tears in the stereotypes of Education "Do not cry, you're a boy," - said my mother a two-year old baby who has just been "offended" a charming girl-friend in the sandbox. From an early age society inspires the boys unacceptability of tears. Growing up, they cry often. But this is what the stats: middle-aged men in five to six times more likely than women to suffer from stressful conditions. The scientists found that people who can not cry (medicine calls it "the disease of dry eye"), suffering from eye and skin diseases, much heavier transports even mild stress, it increased salivation and sweating. What would a child ... Tears - good or bad? Psychologists believe that crying - a form of emotional security, which allows you to free the psyche from negative, sometimes devastating effects of the environment. That is, the tears are a such a catharsis, a kind of purification. But though the ancient Greeks and was a collective catharsis, better to cry in solitude. As you know, - Moscow Does Not Believe in Tears - crying - not the best assistant on the road to success. Crying on the failed talks business woman, weeping over their unsaleable paintings of the artist, roaring beluga contestant - will cause only a fraction of bewilderment and unconscious rejection of unwitting witnesses to such a "little weak". When you should not cry Perhaps the worst tears - it's tears of sorrow. Illness, death of a loved person can break all of us. "Tears of sorrow will not help," - says the proverb, but it tears provide an opportunity to throw out its bitterness, to show negative emotions. "Cry, feel better," - with the understanding we are talking to each other. But there are situations in which tears can only be a hindrance. Mom tells Sasha Bondarev. Her 2-year-old boy developed acute leukemia, save a child could only operation for bone marrow transplant.

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