And wait, knowing that the woman ...

And wait, knowing that women are much more flexible in nature and is willing to adapt to everything, because she has to save not only himself but also his family. A woman is easier to change jobs, behavior, benchmarks, to adapt to new conditions. She is typical of most search activity and variety of solutions. Men are more stringent, they laid on the nature of competition. Therefore, a woman must give her husband some time understanding the situation - sometimes long enough. And in this period, and then, in any case not to inflame the conflict, not to disrupt the reproaches. For women, it is very important to stand up to the position of another: "Yes, you - the head of the family, but together we were in a difficult situation, let alone think about the ways out of it." On the proposal of partnership man go easily. - What to do when a man claims that he can not, and does not want to change? - Very often, such a statement - no more than a declaration of its defensive response to the desire to break the habitual frameworks and stereotypes. He was accustomed to them and any attempt to change anything perceived as an aggression, which he and fighting back. In fact, man can change. Here the most important - in any case not to act, as they say in the forehead. After all, in return you can get aggressive. Or, conversely, a complete unwillingness to do anything at all. He will lose interest in work, leisure, will meet with friends, zapet. That is, will find themselves more comfortable niche. But if a woman is able to pick up a "key" to a man, she can achieve positive results even in a situation that seems hopeless to others. - What mistakes should be avoided the woman if she earns more than her husband? - Firstly, we should not exaggerate the importance of its role as a "primary earner". Such pathos in such a situation is inappropriate and offensive to the men. On the contrary, from time to time try to emphasize that this alignment of forces is accidental and temporary. Second, never make categorical statements like: "I agreed, and your opinion does not concern me, I should not be anything to anyone." This is wrong, because you must take the interests of all family members. In conflict situations, better to see a psychologist. In addition, even during an argument in any case can not be hurt weaknesses of the identity of her husband's physical, psychological and social characteristics, appearance and social status. Even if you annoy him too slow, short temper, untidiness, or relationships with colleagues, friends and family - try to refrain from criticism. Especially in those conversations that are associated with a different theme - from your income and the establishment of new rules in family life. Any criticism on a personal level-one leads to blockage in men of any ability to dialogue. He becomes unable to soberly reflect on the situation. - Will the division of revenue to mitigate the conflict, as is customary in the West? - Do not attempt to recommend the separation of cash accounts and funds.