In this case, contact the police. Unmotivated Theft: case report. The family was at a loss, things began to disappear. It never occurred to release, explains this phenomenon. Adults, bewildered, were simply discouraged. And when mom was gone from her purse a piece of paper is 500 euros (equivalent to 30 euros), the entire family gathered for an emergency round table. Evelyn 13 years old, quiet, quiet, kept for a long time, and then in a tense silence as it burst on the flow of tears. Sobbed on vzryd. Adults long time to calm down. And when the flood of tears stopped, hovered over the table the question: "Why did you do?" Evelina act does not fit into the structure of a family. The family is not rich, but it was necessary, especially needs daughter met fully and even beyond that. Eveline always bought toys are what she wanted. The clothes also had a free choice. This act has puzzled everyone: what Evelyn bought on stolen money? Again, a waterfall of tears. Now we need more time to the emotional element girls calmed down. It turned out that Evelyn at all to steal money for sweets (candy, chocolate, lollipop, chewing gum), and they dispensed almost the half of the class. As explained by Evelyn: "To me were friends." ?? So my mother, Evelyn and dad were in my office. In cases of unmotivated theft causes always hidden away deep in the subconscious of the child. Cautiously began to understand. Evelyn in the new class (nearly a year, she studied at the New School) stood out of his shyness, and together with the responses to the lessons have been accurate and always on the "five", and homework assignments were carried out carefully and with great diligence. That was enough to classmates disliked her. To make Evelina "Scarecrow", the girls tried to pick a nickname, a label, but are more offensive. Showed their contempt for all: in a grin, a grimace, a tone of voice, constantly throwing bits of paper in her direction. A boy who tried to protect Evelyn and dared to sit at one desk, the classmates were subjected to even more cruel ostracism. I asked my parents: "Evelyn turned to you about unhealthy relationships in the classroom?". First - bewilderment. Then it turned out that appeals. Evelyn Pope then dismissed: "Be patient, with brand new is always such problems." Long to ask her daughter did not, somewhere in a hurry. Mom did not find the time to listen to her daughter until the end. Evelyn in his own way was "solved" my problem: half the class load with presents sweets to placate to their relationship and to indulgence. Not consciously, of course. Money was taking by stealth, to justify itself in feelings: "I am not for myself." Small amounts pulled from her purse, my mother did not notice the first time was scary, the second - not so, the third ...- not even conceived. Classmates ate sweets, for a short time, I temper justice with mercy, but for a short time and openly laughed at the Evelyn, persecution continued. Parents and Evelyn worth out of this situation, they did not blame each other, but instead were able to calm a heart to heart talk.
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