Now, there was always time ...

Now, there was always time to listen to each other. Could make friends with a classmate who tried to protect Evelyn. And with the class teacher and other parents (there was a theme for the parent meeting) could improve the atmosphere in the classroom. immediately labeled as: a criminal, a wretch, what a shame? wayside: Quietly sort things out with these hidden motives. What is behind the "domestic thefts"? Well, of course, the lack of understanding. Usually between parents and children in these cases is formed "wayside." Why did it come about? - ask yourself this question. Does your son or daughter is an urgent need to seek your help. You have not found the time to listen quietly, "thirsty in the desert", the child too shy to express, not wanted, I could not ... "Myself, myself ..."- also a way of self-affirmation. Meeting the needs: Each child has their needs. As far as he knows how to satisfy them? What methods he chooses to do this? Many parents may not realize that a son or daughter has their own needs. In many cases this requires money. Originally, there was no trust in money: or even a child No pocket money or give them a little. Children often have no concept of value for money, and therefore can not dispose of them. Just vague notions, there is no difference: the satisfaction of the desires and needs, coupled with the need. PROTESTS: Strange phenomenon : a child among friends and relatives in his family, but he - alone. There is no understanding, the same roadway - it creates frustration in communication, recognition, acceptance. theft in this case - a protest, a desire to punish their parents in this way. very close to this "negative narcissism", which we have already said, as a way to attract attention and get a "stroking" a form of punishment. AMORPHOUS TARGETS: "As kids, do not understand what they do" - a rough sense of biblical sayings. When a person does not understand or does not distinguish between what is good and what is evil, what is justice - a sure sign of moral infantilism. They are vague idea of ??moral values ??and do not distinguish between what may be behind the line of what is permitted. So hard for children to realize and truly appreciate larceny, a misdemeanor: "I did not steal, I just took the money from my mother without a demand." Many reasons exist theft as a form of behavioral dependence. there is a lot of combinations of these causes. Each case - special. And with all this must be very delicately deal. To understand the motivation of unmotivated Theft try to understand: what to buy your child with stolen money? "What does he spend it?" Mom, I was necessary! "But it was necessary to look for your child. a thing as a sign of prestige: sign of prestige can be Mobile phone, pen, player, video game, CD - ROM, branded T-shirt and so on. One sign of the little, little one mobile phone, you need 3-4; little player-player - you need more, same goes for pens and pads and discs and Pokemon and laser pointers, branded caps and so on; sign of prestige must be many, not one, two, and the whole entire deposit. "If I have such a / exists, so immediately ...".