Sunday, 5 June 2011

Often, men are afraid to even more ...

Most men are afraid to even more than women because, unlike them, can not share your fears: all talk and complaints about the age of the male subculture is strictly prohibited, so that men can not get emotional support from friends. Fear of aging as selenium, that one in four men in the 40-45 years experiencing real depression, caused by the realization that more and better part of his life behind. "Depression of two-thirds of life" These states are called therapists. What kind of ridiculous acts committed in those first 3-4 years is quite reasonable people! Union as a young woman for many more sexually attractive, and not only because their bodies are more attractive compared to the same age, but also because in the depths of the unconscious they are less associated with the image of the mother and, therefore, intimate life with them more relaxed. I will not unfounded: a group of British psychologists, headed by S. Paige showed that in 1000 the British, whose wife of 15 years younger, almost 900 sons were hard and cold mothers raising them in the Puritan spirit. Intimate life study of men with their young wives seemed not only more intense but also more diverse, more colorful than their previous sexual relationships (including marital) with peers. By the way, a third of men have never studied group sex with the same age is not entered. And another important fact: a marriage with a young woman raises the prestige of the men in the eyes of the inner circle, raises his status in the male hierarchy. For example, in one experiment, the group of subjects presented with pictures of twenty men, with the first 10 were depicted with women younger than 2-3 years, the second - with women younger than 15 years. So, the appearance of the second group of male subjects was assessed much higher than the exterior of the first. Long-term psychotherapy practice says it all: if a man, happily married before, suddenly connected his life with too young for a girlfriend, what lies behind this not so much love, how much disappointment in my life, often - failure in the professional sphere, and the establishment of young - only way to increase the score in the eyes of others, and even their own. What drives women? The reasons that young women connect their lives with partners who are separated from them for a decade or more, in many ways remain mysterious. After entering into such a union, women advance doom themselves to the disapproval of parents and others, that their partner will be someone less aesthetically attractive than the same age. They doom themselves to a less intensive sexual life: for example, most "traditional" couples in the first "honeymoon" year of intimate relationships almost daily - more precisely, nightly and on weekends, on vacation - and two or three times a day. But in the pairs with a difference in the age of 15 and nothing else like this happens: after two or three weeks after the start of sexual intimacy is a maximum of twice a week.

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