Fourth say "The world is so complicated ...

Fourth say "The world is so complicated. So afraid to live ... "Even the classic psychology really can not answer this question. Composes cumbersome theory, telling us that the ideals take root in childhood. And what we are looking like their fathers and mothers of future partners. Is this true? It would be so if not a lot of real evidence that the dependence of some kind is, however, our partners are oh it does not look like our parents. And not seldom the complete opposite of our parents. Let us try to answer this Article to a question that interested many. What ideal in our heads? Full whether this person? Does it have its own character, their behavioral traits? Unfortunately, as can be, and to the great joy, it's not full of personality and character has not. If the "ideal" way to pull in real life He, at best, to remind a patient in a deep form of Down syndrome. "Why?" ask the dear reader. And because our ideal image is woven from the senses. from a sense of who feels someone who dreams of an ideal. Our ideal image is no more than our feelings, tied to a particular picture. Whether it's a picture classmate, who gave us the experience of first love. or partner, whom we loved to frenzy, but were forced to leave. does not matter which picture is in our head. It is important to what sensations we are trying to present this image and giving it the ideal traits. All ideal - it is nothing more than feelings that each of us wants to experience in a relationship. This sense of overwhelming joy, understanding and acceptance of us just as we are. This desire is not to hide under the guise of being loved. This sense of confidence in a partner. And much much more. But all this - feeling! to these sensations, we merely bind the image, which gave us something similar or, in our opinion, could give . And no more. That's why most people are not able to answer the question "How do you see your ideal?." Because you have to describe my feelings that we can and want to have a relationship with a man. Which, in fact, may have absolutely any appearance, education, manners and education. The important thing is what feelings he gives us. What kind of feelings it creates in our hearts. Returning to the title of the article "How to become an ideal place for your partner, you can answer very, very simple: you give he senses that he needs. And do not try to adjust to a certain image to partner gave us what we need are wrong are those who say that all people are different and require different. It's a mistake. We all need in one and the same - we want to experience the whole gamut of feelings in a relationship: jealousy, passion, love and understanding, and forgiveness, and quarrel, make peace, and love so as not to ask myself whether I have a love or In the end, there is no attempt to change themselves under strange "something" - a thankless task and not giving any fruit.