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The Tale of the Frog-Princess

There are women who believe: to turn into a beautiful princess, it is sufficient to reset the skin of frogs. Therefore, they are willing to go under the surgeon's knife, so as to change his fate. But if a person is transformed to the changes in appearance? This is what we asked the surgeon to do plastic surgery, and psychologists working with people who are not happy with his appearance. POSITION surgeon know: many of those who came to them with the idea to change the appearance of a time will come in the second and the third time, even if the first operation was successful. Therefore, the position of many conscientious doctors is this: "Stay, my dear! Cute nose, breathing well, smell is not broken." Only for some reason, these arguments do not stop the ladies ... How to Reset SKIN If you do not like your face, we turn first to a psychologist. It will not dissuade you go under the knife, because they understand: if a person has decided, no reasonable arguments in defense of the old nose did not proymut. But the psychologist will help you understand how to begin the conversion. Source: Journal of Health "№ November 2003 on the site http://www.zdr.ru/zdr_tmn0411a3.php 

Why is he so cruel?

All parents want their child growing up kind, gentle, well-treated people around him. And so often surprised when the cute, well-bred kid suddenly starts to hurt the younger brother or sister, pinch and pull the tail of a cat laugh at how slow walking old lady ... What are the origins of a desire to hurt the weak? The answer to this question is not so difficult, as many parents. Such a child's behavior may be motivated by a desire to attract attention, self-assertion, self-esteem, and can express the first signs of aggressive behavior. However, all these manifestations (in most cases, unconscious) are based on the attitude to the child in a family of adults - parents and other family members, especially their style of parenting and relationships between them. Very often, this behavior appears in children with the advent of the family of her second child. If the firstborn of all adult enough to understand the changes that have occurred in the family, it seems to him that his undeservedly forgotten, deprived of parental warmth and affection. And he tries to draw attention to it adults all available means, including the negative. Rectify the situation in this case is quite simple. We only need to remember to pay attention to the child, often pat and praise him, not only for what he has done something good, but simply for what it is. But it also happens that the parent did not get warm for a long time, the child begins to feel not enough "good" in relation to the people around him. Approve their self-esteem, self-comparing themselves with others, he can not, he needs the constant support of its value from close adults. Frankly, as not every adult is so self-sufficient, to be pleased with himself, not receiving rewards from other people! What can we say about the children whose experience is measured by several years and about a dozen or two people! Here's the kid and starts to prove their worth, their superiority over those who are most available, who are weaker than him.