Monday, 25 April 2011

And this, in my opinion, not bad ...

And this, in my opinion, not bad ...

And this, in my opinion, quite well. Our four-year son of the house constantly makes noise, prevents us, requires greater attention. In kindergarten bullying other children, robs them toys. What do we do? - First, I advise you not to punish the child or scold him. Try to talk to the boy, and calmly discuss with him about his behavior. Keep in mind that young children are not yet available abstract concepts, they think in concrete terms. Therefore, all educational conversations should be devoted to analysis of concrete, had just taken place cases. During a conversation with the child to explain to him why his act was wrong. Say also that there are other, more acceptable ways of getting the same desired result. So, if your son took a toy from someone from the children, explain to him that it does not necessarily take away: you can just ask. Explain that proper demeanor is beneficial not only to others but also himself. For example, so he can maintain friendly relations with other children and gain the approval of their elders. In that case, if the child took your words and change their behavior immediately let him know that you are happy with this. As an additional means to encourage his son to give a soothing collection for children: chamomile flowers - 1 part fennel seed - 1 part, marshmallow root, licorice roots and rhizomes of couch grass - 2 of each. Two teaspoons of the mixture pour 1 cup boiling water, simmer 10 minutes. Let's warm broth 1 tbsp. spoon twice a day. Note here that a decoction of chamomile should not be taken continuously for more than two months. Otherwise, you can get the opposite effect - overexcitation. * The daughter was born in complicated pregnancies. Currently she goes to first grade. On the lessons of lethargic, passive, timid, inattentive, gets tired easily, learns it does not matter. A neurologist suspected mild mental retardation. Can I do something to help the girl? - Of course, your daughter's treatment in the first place - a problem doctor. But at the same time and you can take some simple measures to help. Recommend, in particular, once a day to give the girl a mixture of grated carrots, honey and garlic (1 tbsp. Spoonful of carrots, 1 / 2 cloves garlic, 1 teaspoon of honey). As a natural source of vitamins you can use the decoction of a mixture of nettle leaves (3 parts) and fruits of mountain ash (7 parts). 1 tbsp. spoon mixture brew in 1 cup boiling water, boil for 10 minutes and then leave for 4 hours. Should take decoction of 1 / 2 cup three times a day. To fatigue and give your child enhance Eleutherococcus extract 10 drops twice a day (morning and afternoon) for 30 minutes before meals. * Every time I go away from home to work, my year-old daughter is anxious, crying, asking me to stay. What to do in this situation? - To overcome the fear of separation, the girl, take it 10 - 15 minutes before you go to work. Tell my daughter, why, and how long you leave it. It does not focus attention on how much you'll be bored without it: it should be a short goodbye to her usual and painless thing.

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