I gave the example of the formation of alcohol zaprogrammirovannnosti exactly the same principle arise All other dependencies. For example, the dependence on the obsessive desire to sniff the shoes (rather rare). was detected in a young resident of Istanbul, after the police began to complain of one quarter of the people that they have someone constantly stealing shoes. After a simple police operation had been detained "bashmachny thief." During a search of this young man in the apartment were seized about two hundred pairs of stolen shoes (male, female, child). It turned out that in childhood and adolescence, his father was often chastised: covered in a dark shoe closet. In the closet, every time serving a sentence, a young man, "zanyuhival" their grievances shoes. Or another case - the dependence on the manicure and make-up nurse. She was raised by a mother who was unable to give his daughter's attention and affection. Whenever daughter approached the mother with various questions, his mother made comments that she looks bad. "You're a very pale gray, like a moth" - often said the mother and for the sake of the game imposed her blush. I taught her daughter apply makeup. It was moved to watch as a little girl clumsily trying to treat adult perfume. Soon the habit entrenched and girlish years gradually developed into a real passion: to impose and remove makeup and nail polish 5-6 times a day. In the end, earned his atopic dermatitis. From excess to spoil your makeup skin began to look much older than his years. You can cite examples from their practice varied. The driver tram had a passion to develop a combination of sharing an apartment for six years, countless times she had tried to build an exchange scheme, and all to no avail, no one option it did not meet She never made a real attempt to make the exchange, but the box from under the TV was up to the top of the crowded newspaper clippings. It took two sessions to this "great kombinatorsha" sent the box in the trash. In middle-aged men were once three dependencies: alcoholism, zavisimostnye fears and a passion for high speed. fined him five times, five times were taken right, you still race in the city continued. True, the accident had never committed, was really good driver. All the people who are depressed, one way or another dependent - on offense , the idea that they are losers, that they are unhappy. The real reason for any form of dependence (which is still - the chemical or emotional) - the psychological pre-programmed. People are harmonious, internally and externally free, do not have any dependency, they have many interests, they have loved and things that do not create any health problems or with communication, help to live a rich and diverse spiritual life, do not create problems for others. There is no one-sided program, addictive they do not. Or it was not originally formed or people get rid of it. How to get rid of dependence in single methods and techniques based on force or fear, I do not believe.
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