Recently, my wife said that, even when she wakes up, her brain continues to sleep. And she did not want to wake him up. Said that the work she does on "automatic", as if half asleep. I have a feeling that it really slows down. As if thinking about something else ... What's wrong with her? Nicholas, Perm. A typical case of this kind of emotional dependence. In another way, this is called functional hypersomnia (excessive sleep duration, the state that occurs when lingering emotional neurosis and chronic dissatisfaction with sex life). Sleep as an agent of addiction as a drug. Not being able (or not knowing how) to resolve their problem in such cases, people go into a dream world, where everything happens as it should be - to luxuriate in the serene peace. Mature person reacts to stress in adult life: talking with significant others, clarifies the relationship with the abuser, changing their own behavior or situation. Children are taught through fairy tales: "sleep on it" and they follow these precepts. But some maintained infant response prblemu sleep and when they are no longer children. This case is very typical. Wife shrugs off her husband, as the annoying gnat, preferring his pillow, but the thing is that between husband and wife there is a deep conflict. If there are no problems with the work with children, you need to look the problem in a relationship that is difficult for himself to change. Need assistance of a professional psychologist. Especially when pritenzii other party not recognized and accepted. This form of care of the problem - a sign of chronic stress. There are other signs of this: constipation, unexplainable aches, allergies and other (or appear later in parallel). In each case, there is a reason, which compels to go into a dream world for her and to look for. If we analyze the reproaches which are usually expressed to "sleep", then we can figure out what is the psychological torment for human beings. Husband and wife prefer waking than sleep, when the marital relationship love affection rather complement, the kisses, the satisfaction in sex. (S. Grachev, AIDS-INFO) seventh group - Dependence of bad habits Frequent desire to itch, nail biting, biting pieces of skin , trihotilimaniya - the constant desire to pull at his hair, picking his nose (retinoleksomaniya-scientific name of this dependence, the majority are men, nearly 25.6% of them have this habit, this habit among women is almost absent. 2.1% of men receive from have fun and only 0,8% have the right to be called dependent, they pick their nose, almost every hour.) desire to sniff shoes and other eight groups - Zavisimostnye relation to values, money hoarding, greed, the desire to constantly spend money, constant aspiration earn more, the desire to count the money. The specific species that are widespread, called oniomania (another transcription-omniomaniya) - uncontrollable craving to fly. Only in the USA oniomania there are about 15 million, and millions more are on the verge of this dependence.
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