Dependencies - a problem complicated and layered. Not all manifestations of dependency have been well studied. Dependency problems are perceived by most people philistine surface, and this leads to misconceptions about the ease of solving this problem, or even makes present it as insoluble. Built by Ostap Bender - Ilya Ilf and Petrov - just noticed that instead of fighting for the purity of it's best just to sweep the streets. To paraphrase the authors of "Golden Calf", the dependency can say: instead of fighting with one or another addiction, better drive out of his unconscious (subconscious), the program dependent behavior (to get rid of it). And this requires a calm and consistent work with a psychologist. This process I call Eliminations (from the Latin-eliminacia - expel, get rid of, throw over the threshold), with the addition COLOUR - as used knowledge of the psychology of color (eg, color tests Austrian psychologist Max Luscher). This technique in my practice I use since 1989. During this time, I was convinced that the color elimination as a method of getting rid of one or another depending gives good results. As figuratively one of my listeners psychological programs: "Dr. Kukk, you have deciphered the genome of dependence". Must be consistently and safely dispose of unconscious behavior of programs from different walks of life, where this emotional or chemical agent depending took too much space (eg, alcohol, drugs, tobacco, gambling, overeating, etc.). Zavisimostnye programs need to be forced out of the sphere of communication, acceptance and recognition. These parties are very important during adolescence, when starting a very important stage of personality formation. (Family relationships, with peers at school, etc.). one or another relationship, as the problem can be regarded as a brake to the development of a healthy and harmonious personality. Dependence is similar to a chain or Girs that stifle the vitality and creative initiative. Take or give? People for the most part always shows weakness when preferred the first. Enjoy as it seductively! We love ourselves too, so you can easily imagine what a reject. It triggered the spring of our ego - have fun any way to get everything at once, for free. Mousetrap dependence-Click! And slammed! It has long been known that gambling - that is expensive to relax and unwind. When people go to casinos with greedy thoughts, a hundred crowns to win ten thousand, then that is the mousetrap and activated with a guarantee of one hundred percent. "Test of Christ in the desert was the same kind. He offers a stunning perspective. Many of us are very easy to be submitted to the appeals of supermarkets "1 +1 = 3" The answer should be two - and another one for free! I know many who are not really having no job, no income took "favorable" loans secured by real estate, under the guarantee, thus substituting their relatives and friends.
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