Parents who work from morning until ...

Parents who work from morning till night, and raising more and a second daughter, 13 years old, realize that all the time eaten up work and attention to their daughters is not enough. And so, knocking out the last effort, lack of love, trying to compensate for the various presentations. Psychologists have found that a mother working in the industry, can give your child attention, fully communicating, only ... 12 minutes a day. But what about the desired satisfaction of vital needs in communication, decision-making, in recognition of parental love, emotional warmth? Instead, the children offered a substitute of love in the form of purchases, gifts (doping) (parents are trying to atone for their guilt or pay off). But no things are not able to replace those children's emotional needs, but create the impression of "satisfaction." Quickly formed a dependence on doping and children begin to steal. Factors contributing to the formation of psychological behavior in the form of pre-programmed unmotivated Theft, repeated in many episodes of the children get older, each of which carries a certain semantic units with a plus sign or minus sign, in other words formed a definite relation to the most action - to steal. That outweighs: negative attitudes towards him or moral tolerance, "it is possible, though it is impossible, but very much want." Such behavioral dependence as unmotivated Theft can be formed as early as 12 -13 years, and parents perceive these new tendencies as a "bombshell" when children begin to have father, mother or grandfather, grandmother to steal money. Some children seem obvious negative external effects are not. They grow and are educated in the outwardly prosperous families. But only - appearance. People are wondering - where did such a tendency: to steal? (Hidden negative impact) Other children are affected by pressure bad company, under the influence of which also are being formed in the behavior of the deviation, such as theft (a distinct negative influence). The first group of external well-being of the family covers the emotional feelings of deficiency and child spiritual dissatisfaction begins to grow. In a child's life, more and more "dewatering" of love, attention, affection, recognition, acceptance. They carry their "feelings of hunger," the material world and the signs of its importance: clothes, stuff, toys, food (especially sweets), toys, etc. They know that stealing - it's not good, but try to compensate for a deficiency of positive feelings - the equivalent of negative emotions (recognition of his offense creates a sense of guilt, resentment, fear of punishment, the desire to avenge his parents for his "emotional hunger, the desire to attract attention to themselves, though they know that they will receive the punishment for theft. On the streets they do not steal, when there are visiting - also ruled out robbery. These kids are stealing just at home. Case study: Galina, divorced.