When guests came, the parents ...

When guests came, the parents boasted Machines achievements. A future star is simply not enough time to sleep, and have friends in the yard or housework - Masha's no such thing was not. Limit is around, and once Mary's music school instead chose the station, where she found a municipal police two days later. Often parents do not realize themselves in life trying to realize and take revenge through their children. Parents begin to impose employment in various circles and sections of music schools and art studios. These trends by themselves are fine and are able to give wings to the development of personality, but if served without choice, without regard to the interests of the child, it can become shackles of slavery. Parents start to think: if I had no luck, then let my daughter, my son will prove it ... The child does not "trump card" and not a means of proof of its exclusivity. That a child really need? A child needs parental love, affection, kindness, understanding, empathy and attention. What children get instead? The tyranny of debt, tight regulations, intense competition and forced labor in the hated circle or section. As a result, receive spineless creature with broken lives, in other cases - the son or daughter, who begin to form a protest, and rebellious behavior and obstinate character with asocial tendencies. But be honest: Have you ever been severely as a child wanted to go to the sections that you choose the parents? So why is the child must deal with the fact that he was not too like? Leave a son or daughter the opportunity to choose the occupation that would prefer, or just hang out with friends, or hiking with a leader whom you trust. Because often the child of a happy family flees, if he thinks that parents dispose of his time as they want, do not reckon with him, do not give any freedom of choice. Therefore, we must first consider the interests and desires of the child and not think: "That he is grown, then it will solve their own problems!" Third root, feeding behavioral addictions to run away from home, wandering, aimlessly traveling - BOREDOM, Unallocated fertile soil for this reason are hormonal changes. Most often, children run away just in adolescence 11-14 years, when adulthood begins, of conflict, stubbornness, and as a consequence of regular quarrels with parents, teachers and other adults. Children run away from home when ... - They are bored and have nothing to do with themselves (not to have been formed creative needs) - they are set on edge reduces the monotony, monotony (passivity, lack of initiative) - they want excitement (there is no concept of the consequences and dangers) - they feel the need for affirmation, acceptance and recognition of the (inaudible in the way, irresponsible) parents create the conditions for the formation of this relationship when ... - Are behind the curve of control over their children - "overfed" love their children - tightly wrap their children continued custody - for their son or daughter did not leave a choice - do not leave their children the right to make a mistake - forget about the spiritual needs and notions of morality - suppressed any independence of the child to fill the vacuum of experience and at least as something to brighten up the dullness and monotony of life, children resort to dreams and fantasies on the theme of wanderings, so they are so fast, "sink" for adventure films, it is easy to get hooked on gambling addiction.