There was attention and parental ...

It was and attention, and parental warmth, but it is all she got in passing, as they say on the leftovers. Marianne began to feel on the sidelines, in something as the underdog, forgotten and even unnecessary. Previously, the stepfather to play a lot with a foster daughter, my mother read bedtime stories. Now my mother and stepfather, most of the time they give it to his younger brother, and Marianne from kindergarten took away my father and mother brought home. The Pope was now a new family. Marianne is often said that she had a big girl and she can take care of myself. From the second class of Marianne began to mooch, she liked to drive aimlessly around town, transplanting from one bus to another. In the third class began to leave the house. Mother is a daughter or a new family of the father or grandmother, where she just felt useless and lonely. Mother punished for these absences daughter, but Marianne has continued to run away from home during the night was delayed several times by the police, whose officers and advised to seek psychological help. Unfortunately, these stories a lot ... CONCLUSIONS: After a divorce, very often parents are arranging their lives in new families, giving birth to new children and switching them to forget their first child. Do moms or no time for attention and care to a child, or do not want to do it. Care and attention just enough for one. These moms are justified: the senior already knows how to do everything himself, he was great. Educate prohibitions and punishments, and time is big, then raise the requirements, if behavior problems, then try to bring control, where there really understand the feelings. In children, on a subconscious level matures cash motive: on the one hand - running away from home to escape from the unjust demands and tight control, and with another - a way to attract attention because they are lonely next to family and friends. Child desire to acknowledge you, cares about you and love remain unsatisfied. Instead, they feel worthless. Stems usually demonstrative. Children run away to where they can always be found. Secluded places where children tend to "licking" her wounds are known to parents. Children in this way elicit pity: "looking for, then they need me, and get new insults and clout. The second root, feeding behavioral addictions to run away from home, wandering, aimlessly traveling - LIMIT LOADS. Clinical case: Mum nine of Masha, a failed actress, she dreamed that my daughter becomes a famous actress. Dad just slept and saw in her daughter-Olympic champion gymnast. Day Masha was painted to the limit: the school (to learn to be only "five-plus", "your parents have a college education), after school daily three-hour training in gymnastics, theatrical circle alternate music and dance lessons (the aspiring actress has to be sense of rhythm and plastic). In addition, in-depth study of French.