Wednesday, 22 June 2011

This is becoming a familiar style ...

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Usually, such a need in the purely psychological compensation appears after a major life failure, strong impact on self-esteem men. About the third. Is typical for men with a good sense, romantic kind. They firmly believe in the myth of two halves, which must meet and then be happy. All of his failures in his personal life and constant quest, they explain that they simply unlucky in love, they still have not found the one single. It is interesting that while they consider themselves Monogamous, just the same one only, has not yet met. Fourth occasion. There is a type of men "Daffodils" was extremely conceited, believing in its exclusivity, being different. These people need constant admiration, as we have in the daily diet, they were accustomed to take what they want, just because they are "special". Good Woman? "No question, it will be mine!". By the way, "Daffodils" cools to each new passion, as only a "hobby" becomes accessible and commonplace. Occasional fifth. Many members of the male sincerely believe that sex on the side - not cheating at all, but just kind of behavior inherent in any "real man", such as smoking or alcohol. And it is very important that all the friends saw each new passion, rate it, perhaps, would envy. Very many men lead to a change in their individual psychological problems triggered by an early age by their parents, parenting style, family relations. And with this group of men is not so simple. You can, of course, accustomed to stigmatize their definitions of "male", "dog", etc., but it will be obvious simplification of the problem. Let's try to tell a little about these causes of male infidelity. It turns out that another type of men inclined to change that - misogynists, relating to all women like second-class beings. Such a deep, unconscious hatred of all women is caused, as a rule, emotional traumas of childhood. Conquest of each new woman, a betrayal to his wife - a way of aggression, the opportunity to strike while the two women. Just do not think this is some kind of villains, such an attitude toward all beings feminine sits deep in the subconscious. Cause of distant childhood long forgotten, but the style of behavior was, and was the only familiar. If the mother loved her son, giving him and only him all my love, denying themselves all over, including in the device's own personal happiness (as you know, we are talking about single mothers), the son begins to perceive itself as a universal gift as God's gift to all women, without exception, occurring in its path. This is becoming a familiar style of his association with the opposite sex. But that dose of adoration, to which he was accustomed, and which can only give only the mother, the man simply can not find one, albeit a very loving his woman, wife, friend. Account the quality of recruit. Only in this version, a man nearly enough of the love and attention, to which he was accustomed to since childhood.

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