Otherwise, the whole structure loses its meaning.

Very often one of the styles of family interaction is the so-called style of "triangle". Mother and father or mother and grandmother are unspoken struggle for love, attention, obedience to his son. They compete with each other in the amount of love and adoration of the child. A child is a child becomes accustomed myself to feel the top of the triangle, for the love that fight the other side. Style of adult behavior that we have a couple of decades - to search for habitual state of bliss, when for you, for your love of two women fighting. The wife and mistress, for example. As you know, in this case, the goal of treason is not sex, not love, but something else. Moving between the angles of the triangle such a man never makes a decisive choice in favor of one party or another. And his wife certainly be one way or another, be aware of the fact that her husband is fighting someone else. Otherwise, the whole structure loses its meaning. If the family triangle, the boy was not the top corner and fighting for the attention of the parties (a situation such as when a family of several children), it grows up, it creates a slightly different "triangle". Such a man accustomed to the rivalry in love, first of all pleasures for him - take away a woman from someone else. In this case, the purpose of his game - not a woman and a man with whom he competes subconsciously, it need not have another woman, and beat another man. Very often the mother is so very attached to her son that he had his whole life is psychologically connected to her. Very common and familiar to many situations, generating so-called "momma's boy. Most women believe that that's just this type of men's infidelity is simply not capable, they say, they are born henpecked. Alas, it is not. And then there are two versions of events. In his wife's sissy looking for a same "mama", that is a devoted, caring wife and mother of his children, a kind of "mother-nurse." He genuinely loves and appreciates his wife, he is without it, literally, as without hands, but ... he soon ceases to see her sexual partner, no longer feel attracted to her as a woman. The identification of his wife with his mother so completely that arises in the soul of man unconscious protest against "incest". It is clear that for sex (he is normal in all respects a man) sissy begins to look for another woman. In doing so he is not going to leave his wife, he continues her truly and deeply love, and sometimes even warns about his mistress. The second scenario occurs when the "sissy", albeit belatedly, beginning to feel the natural need to separate from the "mother-wife, as do all normal adolescents, only a little at a younger age. Then the "march to the left" means nothing, as a natural teenage protest, a revolt against the influence of the "mammy". It's funny that the insurgency is overgrown teenager behaves exactly like a bad boy who really really want to go back under the reliable "Mama" barrels.