Things began to change only ...

It was very difficult, because the very prefix "psycho" to the name of the specialty of his bogey. "Am I mentally ill, I also feel the real pain you feel?". Problems added to relatives, who, like some "experts", he repeated impatiently: "Pull yourself together, you're a man? How much can you moan, you're healthy as an ox? ". But the discomfort continued, and Dmitri could not oppose them. Things began to change only after beginning work with a therapist, doctor, when the doctor first told him the mechanism of disease, causes pain and futility in the surveys. Hard for the umpteenth time, he told him that the cause of pain - the reaction of the nervous system. That there are some psychosomatic diseases in which the presence of complete physical health could be severe pain, because they thought (mind) affects the internal (somatic) sensations. And each time, after such explanation, Dmitry felt better, all discomfort disappeared. Now Dmitry again, as before in good health, but the road to recovery was not easy, 6 months of constant fear of death is deeply lock in the memory of Dmitry. The long various work with a physician therapist, special independent study of autosuggestion which he learned playing sports, supporting his wife returned to Dmitry old sense of physical confidence and strength of spirit. Psychotherapist Medical-Psychological Center individuality Liberman, Leonid Matveyevich Str. Garden-Karetnaya, 20 / 6, Building 2. 209-98-80, 209-94-20

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The mistrust between the sexes

Everybody wants to believe that love is the kind of fundamental factor, and hostility fortuitous circumstance. But, because of the high prevalence of turmoil in romantic relationships, you can ask a question, what is the cause of the conflict, why it's so easy to misunderstandings that can lead to open confrontation? The atmosphere of suspicion and lack of faith in his chosen less to do with a certain partner, but with the inability to cope with their emotional reactions. Our survival instinct is a natural fear of the prospect of "losing himself" in another person. People most often do not notice how little he gives another, but can easily detect this flaw from its partner, feeling that "you never actually did not like me." His wife, nurturing the idea of ??revenge to her husband, because that spouse is not giving her all his attention and all my love, do not notice how much hostility and aggression expressed in this installation. Each of us occasionally forgets about its own hostile impulses and attributes them to his partner. This process is, of course, is mutual distrust. Aware of their own ability to easily and naturally fun side, the man has no doubt that another way to do so. Fear love is always mixed with the fear of the evil that we might cause to other people, or they might cause us.