And in this "painful" condition ...

It is in a state of "love of neurosis," a person ascribes to his handpicked or beloved supernatural virtues, some unusual quality. Favorite or a loved one seem the most-most: better, kinder, more honest, decent just does not happen. And in this "painful" condition people become husband and wife. And then goes a little time - romantic love does not last long - and discovers that much of the extraordinary merit chosen to put it mildly, does not correspond to reality. It is estimated that the worst possible choice by those who marry at the peak of love - within three or four months after the onset of feelings and start a joint sexual life disintegrates around 40% of marriages a year later another 30, and by the end of the third year are bound by ties of Hymen, only 20 % (!) pairs. The best means of divorce and out of jail Psychologists are well aware that virtually every adult male unconsciously looking for a wife, traits that were characteristic of his mother. But if, for example, the mother was cold, arrogant, paid little attention to his son, a man can marry a woman in a temper with a similar character, but successful, and even more so long, such a union, of course, will not. More often wrong in choosing a wife men are raised by single mothers - the proportion of divorces in their first marriages is about 60%. Join the new union, this pretty numerous part of the male population, are generally not in a hurry. If the boy was raised in a happy family, better yet - with his sister close in age - a little younger or a little older, it is virtually certain, scientists say, the marriage will be happy. Such men divorce rate is only 20%. By the way, men who with her sisters kind, warm relationships, not only in 2,5 times less likely to get divorced, but make three times less crime, and five times less likely to enter prison. Not born beautiful ... Couples who start private life at first - the third day after they met, before marriage usually do not reach. To a man the desire to marry, it must be like to suffer, to mature, in other words. Overly rapid onset of the same sex life - even if she is gorgeous - not conducive to the maturation of high emotions. Appearance, say psychologists, is not always a guarantee of happiness. Just like in the song: "Do not born beautiful and be born lucky." Those who are not particularly beautiful, have the same chance to be happy in a marriage that beauty. Importantly, girls, do not hurry. American researchers have found the longer the couple had known each other before marriage, the greater the chance that their union will be strong. Of those that married two years or more after dating for more than 80% remained husband and wife, and five years after the wedding, and after ten and twenty. And give them, as they say, God! Source: Anna Smirnova "Arguments and Facts"

Source: the Internet edition "MED + info" to "expert advice" on the site www.medinfo.ru 

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