Monday, 4 April 2011

Care of one parent from a family ...

In this situation may develop a tendency to take and wear other people's things, take and give. Care of one parent from a family of divorce or the break in relations between the parents, too, can serve as a starting point for the development of kleptomania. But as a rule, the fact that divorce is not self-sufficient precondition for theft. Of course, this is stressful for the whole family, and the consequences can be varied (not always the worst, especially if the issues are resolved peacefully, and take into account the interests of all parties, including psychological well-being of the child). In such difficult for family members of former times, even just for the sake of prevention, it is helpful to consult with a psychologist. Prevention of kleptomania The above reasons are risk factors for the emergence of Child and Adolescent kleptomania, but not a prerequisite of its occurrence. Parents do not have to give up happiness to have another child, build a personal life, at its discretion. To make such sacrifices are not worth even harmful, but to save the child from psychological trauma, leading to kleptomania, parents are able to do. The first mistake that often allow parents: do not overlook or turn a blind eye to the small loss. Then two of the ruble from the table, then a dozen of the purse, every family has its own line of "small" amount. So the wise rule - money from love-true. Always know exactly what you amount of money and where it is. Second point: the relationship to money. The child must not provide a picture of what things and money falling from the sky. It is very important that the child knew: the money earned by work to be earned. It is easier to explain if the child has his stronger work at home (eg, water the flowers or care for a pet). Then it will be easier to understand what the parents their responsibilities, but on another level, doing that, they get money and then distribute them to the needs of the entire family. Third. Remember that love and attention needed a child, as the air he breathes. And no the most expensive toy not a substitute for communion with the Pope or his mother. Even if you are very busy, look for the baby while you're completely at his disposal, and only him. Important secret communication with the child - touching. If you're dealing with a child not to touch him, then after a while it starts to get nervous. If you love to touch the child until he tells his story, the child calms down, relaxes. Therefore, pat my child and hug him as often as possible, without haste and without hesitation. By following these simple rules, you will not only take preventive measures against the development of kleptomania, but also get more pleasure from communicating with your own child. If you suddenly overtaken by this calamity, first analyze what actions have resulted in such unpleasant consequences, try to understand, and then consult a psychologist.

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Over millions of years in humans (as in other biological specimens) to develop mechanisms of species protection. T.

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