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People have become dependent on an agent, seeking more and more frequently with that agent to achieve a strong interaction effect (greater intoxication, a greater sense of danger or risk, a greater state of humiliation or frustration). 5. The repetition of obsessional thoughts about his "Comforter", the need for it. This is manifested in the monotony and regularity of the repetition of addictive behavior, it is in those moments when a person gets into embarrassing situations, such as boredom, loneliness or physical pain. He knows no other way to respond in a difficult situation, except by resorting to the help of "comforter." 6. There comes a feeling that people can not cope with their problems (from any area of ??your life) without the help of his agent, emotional or chemical). 7. Methods of struggle, the mobilization of willpower, prohibitions, penalties, Persuasion and became dependent on the promises of "no more violate the given words to them," vows - "I never in my life ..." attempts to "coddle" - as a rule, do not give results although you can spend a significant part of his life, battling with his addiction, even if this dependence is "caught" not very serious. 8. Justified only by the professional approach (working with a psychologist, a psychotherapist, a psychiatrist with special training and experience in this field), all other attempts are usually unsuccessful or only give a temporary result that takes away precious energy of the soul, time and money. 9.Ostavayas with his addiction, the person continues to lose a significant portion of the money, time, energy and others at the expense of something more important (and life passes by "), and the result is even more hated myself for these senseless squandering. 10. As a result, any dependence leads to loss of self-esteem and mental strength, there is a threat to the entire way of life, family, career, loss of friends, loss of physical and mental health. And many dependency robs life itself. If you find yourself at least three criteria - consult a specialist. Measures should be taken that these signs did not escalate into a serious relationship (level of need, habit). If you found yourself in half of these traits - need professional help (the level of the beginning and development of dependence - I and stage II), with no psychological help is necessary. If you have found out more than five attributes - is formed depending on the level that corresponds to the II-III stage - a threat to the health, social status, family life and even life threatening). I want to quote here a statement Vesa Niskera: "If everything is constantly transformed and eventually will go into oblivion, perhaps, best place to live, no grasping for something, and released all of its forces from any dependence - away from its impracticable desire certainty and meaningfulness, are exempt from its claims to the universe and not beg for her happiness and eternal life. " (Wes Nisker "Crazy wisdom" in 1990) crown of the tree left side of this tree - chemical dependency (alcohol, tobacco, drugs, drugs). (Estonia: 26% of girls smoked and 36% of the boys despite the fact that in general in Estonia each year reduces the number of smoking students in recent years, a 10% increase in the number of girl smokers.