It also develops intellectual curiosity, motivation and desire to achieve positive goals .. It protects children from developing anxiety, depression, eating disorders, antisocial behavior, and drug and alcohol abuse. "Education - one of the most researched areas including psychological and social sciences," says Steinberg - Professor of Psychology at the University of Philadelphia. "The scientific evidence and principles that he identifies, is that they are very consistent,"-inform his colleagues .. Too many parents base their actions on emotions and parental instincts. But some parents have a deeper concept than others - says Steinberg. Children should never be infringed - a severe blow to the psyche of the kid. "If your child was in a dangerous situation, a loss on the road - you can pick it up and carry, but you are in any case should not overwhelm or offend him . "Ruby Natale, clinical professor of pediatrics at the University of Miami School of Medicine, agrees not completely. She suggested that some additional principles of its own understanding" Many people use the same tactics that their own parents, instead of really reasonable to use the tools ", she said. The relationship of parents to the child will be reflected in the actions of the child - including children's behavior problems, explains Natale. -" If you do not have a good relationship with your child, it is not going to listen to you. Think as if you communicate with other adults. If you have a good relationship with him, you tend to trust them more, listen to their opinions, and disagree with them. If it is - someone else whom we dislike, we ignore their opinion. "10 principles Steinberg true for anyone who deals with children - a coach, teacher, psychologist, babysitter, etc.. 10 Principles of Good Parenting: 1. What you do not, and mean." This is - one of the most important principles, "says Steinberg." What do you do, there are large hidden differences. Your children are watching you, and you too are trying to figure out what you want. Just do not work on''sick''corn moment. Ask yourself,''I want to do, and what would be the likely outcome? 2. You can not be too loving. "(3) It is impossible to correct the child with excessive love," he writes. "What we often think, this is a product of our anger or other emotions, sometimes the result representing the character of love as gifts and things instead of love - things tend to replace the feelings and thoughts. 3. Be involved in your child's life. "Is the involvement of parents spend a lot of time and - this is hard, patient work, often means to rethink and reorganize your priorities. This often means sacrificing what you want to do in favor of what your child should do. Be with him as mentally and physically. "Being are involving, not to do homework for the child - or re-read it or fix it. "Homework - a tool for teachers to know whether the child knows the new material or not." If you do your homework, you do not let the teacher know what a child learns and develops, as in the future with him to work. "4.
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