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But most importantly, what dooms himself a young wife - in ten years, and even before she becomes "carer" for the elderly husband would lie on its shoulders the heavy care of six decades of man. Peers still live an active and interesting life, and she ... Yet, 6% of women (in the near future this figure dostignet10%), similar to Rita, glad to go to this step. Who are they? What motivates them? Psychologists from different countries are looking for answers, looking intently studying young women are already middle-aged men. The first thing that catches your eye in the study of this group of women, the fact that more than half of them came from families where the father is much older than the mother - at least for 10 years. Almost 40% of young women have grown without a father, a quarter of them (!) Parents never saw. Only some of the women grew up in "traditional" families, but where the father was older, and there has been coeval with the mother, he distinguished himself with kindness, diligence, reliability. Between father and daughter was revealed a special affection. Those girls that were raised by a single mother, showed keen interest to his father as a teenager they flashed "Kageke syndrome" when they tried to find his father, to establish a relationship with him - in most cases unsuccessfully. Incidentally, the classic "Kageke syndrome" was seen in the famous Marilyn Monroe: The first is his fee, it gave the private detective, instructing him to find his father, whom she had never seen. After a long search for his father showed up at the other end of the country, but to meet with her daughter and did not want to put the detective outside the door, breaking it to his nose. The vast majority of those whom we say, the craving for men, much older than himself, felt very early, already in adolescence and early adulthood. Interest to their peers, they have not experienced ever before and the first sexual intercourse is very often the case with men, more older people who become their husbands. Specialists unanimously believe: marriage with much older men - is not accidental, and natural continuation of the entire previous life of a young woman. Significantly, many of them trying to "escape the fate": thus, J. Sandler thoroughly investigated 1000 women whose husbands were older than 15 years and over, and found that almost 900 of them tried to engage in sexual relations with their peers, but experienced at the same disappointment. In bed with the young people they do not feel a tenth of that pleasure, which until then (and after!) Were tested in the embraces of men Godyaev their father. Young wives are recognized experts that their peers are not only uninteresting but often hurt and hurt his lack of care, incontinence, instability, interest in other women, sexual infidelity. In general, these representatives of the fairer sex seem to us more fragile and vulnerable, unable to endure the difficulties of living together with young men. Through the eyes of the therapist's observations show that during times of economic crisis the number of marriages of different ages is greatly increased.