For example, the women said about ...

For example, women stated that sex life is indifferent to her, they would think quite full. The man, saying such risks being morally destroyed. What is sexy? Above all, this individual is extremely subjective evaluation of emotional and physical qualities of a partner, compared with a certain ideal. Someone specific, you ask? Yes, the man himself, his parents, the environment, the images and fantasies throughout life from the cradle. And what one finds it very exciting, another cause disgust. And in the first and second case is a variant of conventional norms. What determines your sexuality? The first sexual constitution, namely the incidence of desire, spontaneous excitation, fantasies and dreams with erotic content, frequency of masturbation, willingness to sacrifice for the sake of meeting sleep, food, rest, of course, the number of sex acts real and desirable, willingness to engage in them, resistance to stress and many other factors. About sex there is always a lot of myths. And where the myths, fears and frustrations there. Typical misconceptions include the following: "sex fully reflects the feelings of the person," "every touch - sexy," "a real man checked into sex," "good sex involves an orgasm," "perfect sex occurs spontaneously without talking," "sex is everything connected with the phallus, and others. The slightest discrepancy between these stereotypes may cause anxiety and disruption in intimate life, lower self-esteem and plunge into a depression. The most frequent problems related to the fact that one or both lovers feel that they do in sex either too little or too much. Different views on the unusual sexual behavior and a variety of ways, conservatism generate anger and resentment towards each other, often projected on to the pair as a whole. If you wish to receive and give pleasure, whether you are able to answer the questions (they are addressed to both men and women): "What my partner means by proximity?", "What can I do for him to feel this closeness? "" I know his preferences in bed? "," whether he is satisfied with the frequency and quality of what is happening between us? ". Each of his idea of ??pleasure, which a partner can not share. It is important to strive to meet the expectations of each other. The Chinese proverb says: "One box - different dreams." Of particular importance is the joint symbolic language for the discussion of specific feelings and actions, as well as a sincere atmosphere of trust. A woman may not like that her husband slaps her, but she would never tell him about it. The husband can not stand when my wife respect his chest, but is afraid to offend her. Thus, they are both dull their own sexuality resistant habit to perform rituals. A simple "yes", nod approvingly stroking, light exclamation as a sign of pleasure carries a clear message about what is pleasant. If you gently remove a partner or by directing his movement with his hand to show what should be done, we can come to mutual satisfaction.