Decreased libido is ...

Low libido is the most frequent complaint encountered by family therapists. People are just too tired, have a lot of worries, carry the enormous burden of responsibility associated with work and children to be interested in sex. Harlbert (1993), a study group of physically healthy women with low inclination, found that 93% of them did not get enough sex from their lovers, 90% claimed that their relationship was not enough romance, 84% found it difficult to initiate, 75% cited the inadequacy of his caresses, 38% attributed this to the frequent quarrels due to sexual relations, 21% - of distrust, 13% - dissatisfaction with their bodies, 4% - the fear of getting pregnant. As it is impossible, by the way, comes to mind saying M. West: "Sex - it is emotion in motion." People can easily and clearly visually represent a variety of sexual scripts, quickly reach the psychological excitement through their fantasies than those who simply looks at the partner and does not draw in the mind images of passion. The roots of desire rooted in the desire to involve fantasy, to stay interested. Many men and women allow themselves while the intimate proximity to think about responsibilities at home, problems at work. They say that sex has become for them an automatic habit. And no wonder! The basic premise of desires - the thought, what the thought is the result. In order to awaken the sensuality and become more receptive and therefore hotter, it is recommended at the time (week - three) to introduce the taboo of the sexual act itself as a pair and any sexual touching of buttocks, breasts and genitals to each other. This allows us to understand what touches and caresses delight. So you can learn to awaken the desire, just gently touching the face, neck, massaging the arms, legs, back. Partners do it one by one, talking about his own feelings and celebrate all the nuances of emotion caused by even breathing. Welcome all sorts of oils and lotions as a soothing and toning properties. Tremendously in this situation, encourage the whispers, fragrances, reciprocal research games with a mirror. Duration is important, not less than thirty minutes, and ensure that sexual intercourse will not be realized. Great just no strangers to the human. George Bernard Shaw admitted: "Like all husbands, I started with a passion, but finished a habit. Women are very sensitive to what looks like their figure, constantly dieting are prone to self-deprecation. Unfortunately, men are just too focused on criticizing the body partners . Noting the disapproving glances and comments in his address, many women avoid sexual contact. The tragedy is that they reject their partner, but accept their criticism, as a last resort, devaluing yourself in everything else. In our time, no doubt, require significant changes in cultural values ??that we have reached that level, when a middle aged man will be freely and openly admire the bodies of women her age.