Of course, all is good in moderation ...

And another question, first of all interested parents: when to start talking "about it" with a child? Many consider: when the child begins to ask questions himself. In fact, education sex education (rather than just giving information about sex) began almost from the cradle. And the main condition upbringing harmoniously developed personality in intimate terms - harmonious sexual life of the parents to the existence of which they are not sanctimonious. The first time a child learns about sex, not when starting to ask the question "Where did I come, and when the mother and father do not hesitate to his tenderness and affection. Why is swearing and shouting, and even fights with the parents the child can demonstrate (at least so many moms and dads are not shy in front of the children to sort things out), and the love and tenderness - it is impossible? Of course, do not invite children into her bedroom, but to show the child that the parents love each other that they may sit arm in arm, talking to each other a gentle tone of affectionate words - this is the first intimate information plan, designed for children. After the child is not just interested in intimate matters, and the matter is not even in the normal childhood curiosity. Just a child begins to treat yourself to a particular gender, and therefore asks the questions. A father and mother, between whom there is no intimate harmony, can not educate the children literate attitude toward sex. And the kid in front of which Mom and Dad are constantly swearing, then he can not understand that man and woman come together and live together because they love each other. At best, he said, believe me, but deep down in the rest of their lives to make sure that his own parents are deceived. And probably, not only for love. Other adults, afraid to grow up "sexual abuse" of children, depriving them of basic needs - parent caresses. At one time, all the popular medical journals kept repeating: "Do not take the child on your hands, do not pat, do not kiss, do not bother him - it could provoke an unhealthy sexual feelings in children." And many parents believe this sanctimonious belief, eventually brought an absolutely senseless children - in all respects, not only in terms of sex. Children grew up with the problems in assessing their own appearance, did not know how to love either himself or others, and in intimate relationships were completely devoid of sensuality, introducing sex only as a set of coarse repetitive actions. In fact the child for health needs to his parents kiss, hug and gently squeezed. In the end, so he, too, feels loved, needed and important. Of course, all is good in moderation, and do not want to zatselovyvat and zalaskivat child. But when he asks in his hands - it does not mean that he is naughty. Just kids sometimes need to feel the warmth and tenderness of parental hands. So after all: what and how much to talk about sex when the child begins to ask questions? The main rule here is: the information must be available, but do not tell a child more than what it needs.