But why? This can only be ...

But why? This can be in only one case - if the denominator of the value of "X / 0" they do not scratch, if the value of "X / 0" is not for them infinitely large. This means - they perceive the potential loss of their own existence, not as losers. In fact, any human being, this specified value (X / 0) does not contain in the denominator 0. In the denominator of the "leaves", such as altruistic sostovlyayuschaya.Chelovek can take risks and their lives for their children, relatives and even friends. If saving your own child will need to make a long parachute jump - every parent will do it nezadumyvayas and will take such a leap, as a boon. But as we know, most of the threats and critical situations that do not relate to relatives, and relate to, and directly threatens the special, to be in these situations. And such a situation, such threats can cause a preparatory reaction, ie stress, which sometimes, in some situations, as we see may be completely irrational. Is it possible in this situation somehow optimize this reaction, ie "Remove" unnecessary stress reaction? After the usual "method of teaching" here will be useless. Conventional methods of learning (training) will be effective only if they can be used to reduce a significant threat to the level of minor. If there is a significant level of threat to life, and it does not depend, or to a small extent depends on our actions in this case requires a fundamentally different method. According to the theory of N. Haan: "if the situation is not particularly stressful, and people are able to cope with it, the strategy preodaleniya characterized as targeted, flexible, based on internal principles and allowing affective symptoms. In stressful circumstances the same person preserves the integrity of the expense more or less distortion of reality. "(Article VA Bodrov. The problem of coping. Psychological Journal. № 1 for 2006). But it's fundamentally the wrong approach. Indeed, the very inappropriate stress response - is a distorted response. After distorting the reality of a simplified biological mechanisms - "pushers", prompting sometimes irrational, senseless preparatory reaction, ie to stress. After all, we do not consider distortion of reality, illusion, our feelings to our children, feeling that in some cases may reduce the unsustainable stress reaction. Our feelings for our children - it is a given, it is the same reality as the reality of the immobility of the earth, about people living on this zemle.Ved we do not believe the ability to maintain composure in critical situations, where appropriate, the ability, based on illusion, the mistake and the person experiencing a senseless and useless fear - more realistic and sober-minded. Should be no distortion of reality, but finding the reality, getting rid of illusions, acquired in consequence of the imperfections of our "design." Are there techniques, do away with such illusions, on the basis of which actually appear wasteful, unnecessary and harmful stress reactions? Such techniques exist.