In general, sexual information is given to children on the rise: three year old child, say, a question: "Where do babies come from?" Enough to reply: "From the tummy." Six-year are not going to tell you that a child develops from a special cell. And older children may well have to learn how this cell appears in the tummy. If a young child asks what is the difference boys and girls (this issue can be triggered by the fact that the kid sees as "goes to pot" of the opposite sex), you can tell him that there are men like my father, and women like my mother. Women grow from girls, and men - from boys. And it's just two different kinds of people. The child is older, he will be able to consider the picture in the appropriate children's books, we can already show how the different structure of the genitalia boys and girls. Now - about the books. Today there are many special children's sexological literature. Whether to give the child such books, and when? Alas, man is by nature can not learn in life only one or two people. He necessarily require multiple sources of knowledge for building a broad outlook. In the same way with sex education. Of course, the parents give the basic information, but nevertheless "visual aids" in the form of special children's books (and not adult magazines and anatomical atlases) can help them to answer children's questions. And since the books are of varying quality, first view such an acquisition themselves. And, of course, avoid sentences like: "When you grow up - to learn." Especially when it has another connotation: "Go away!" Or "Go away!" Because the child is going, but will satisfy their curiosity of other, more primitive sources. And please - the soil for future intimate complex is ready. But this time the parents information can be an antidote to the vulgar and dirty stories that a child might hear in a kindergarten or in the yard. In any case, it is important that the child to trust you. And that kind of information that he heard from your mouth means more than that tell him on the street. And for this not to alienate children do not make them close and be left alone with their questions. And another thing: do not be fooled by the child, telling him "about the stork." Because now a lot of "enlightened" children who will raise your "immaculate" scion of a laugh. What they tell him - you can imagine, but these stories will be accepted as truth, and your attempts to save the "integrity" of the child may seem quirky to him lie. And then the question arises: why father and mother lie? Probably because the kids really come out of the dirtiest places, and nothing in all this there is no good ... Here is a possible outcome of your desire to retain a child's virginal purity of mind! In fact, many kids learn that they have not brought any storks, with a sigh of relief: "That's good! And I thought I was a non-native ... "The kids like that they - the product of their own parents and most of that on there home (because with a deficit fondling children sometimes do not feel sufficiently parents' love to you!), But not throw in some odd stork.
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