Things become so much that ...

Things become so much that they have to give or throw away. There are all signs of addiction, such as failures, after a strong desire to engage and "never go there", with a subsequent conviction. Economic negative consequences of spontaneous purchases - it's a lot of unplanned expenses that fall on the family budget. A man obsessed with shopping addiction occurs with a lot of accusations at home of relatives. A woman bent on shopomanii at the time of purchase, it is not concerned about how this or that purchase of an impact on material well-being of him and his family (the rational mind is disconnected). Negative (on the part of the psyche), the consequence is a great feeling of guilt, which is present in humans after shopping, and (in the quiescent state) budget implications. The woman begins to berate himself to blame, there are instances when, in the family after a visit to the store no money. Self-incrimination is the aggression directed at the person, causing negative consequences for the organism, such as headaches, strong negative emotions. Due to permanent spending done a lot of quarrels in the family, problems at work. Perhaps rejection of friends, not everyone wants to accompany you to the store for hours waiting for you at the exit. Sometimes, a person in the supermarket (especially in the midst of sales, when there are many people wishing for the same thing), go to extreme negative emotions such as anger. This could be seen in the early 90's in Russia, where for every thing was whole battle. From the psychology of stress, it is known that this may be accompanied by negative changes in the cardiovascular system, provoking increased blood pressure and other adverse reactions in the body. Reasons shopomanii different. You can talk about several hypotheses of this dependence. So, for example, are often confronted with the opinion of psychologists (especially psychoanalytic orientation), claiming that oniomania, like any other relationship is rooted in the childhood. This opinion is based on the idea that a small child who has not been in my childhood enough warmth, love, "canned" those needs. And the form of resolution of this internal conflict is search of psychological comfort. Ie adult, buying themselves things indulges himself, continues to be a child (or rather sends his past as a love and warmth), get at least on a short period of pleasure from it. There is an unconscious age regression, a well-known experts in the field of hypnotherapy. But this hypothesis only partially explains the origins of addiction and comes from psychoanalytic ideas on the human psyche. I would like to touch on the role of society in the development of oniomania. Shopogolizma rapid development in modern society takes its origin from the dominant role of the media (the media) in modern life.