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Do I take it, just as you accept the fact that you have two hands and two legs. Nothing terrible will happen if you do this. To enhance the effect of reconciliation can and should talk about his complex of other people as soon as the case. Speak calmly and somewhat jokingly. Thus is achieved the effect of withdrawal of the Iron Curtain. " Nothing so enhances the complex, as the mystery around him and trying to hide it. Alex panicky fear of attention to the person from a big company. Very often this took place when he had to say toast the holidays and feasts. He was terribly embarrassed and tried to hide his confusion, which led to the deterioration of the situation. He felt that all blame him for what he can not speak beautiful toasts. One day he said to himself, "Enough!" I can not so much anymore! ". And on one of the great feasts, where there were many friends and acquaintances, he raised his glass and started his toast with a smile: "I am terribly embarrassed when propose a toast, so my toast may sound a little crumpled, but from a pure heart ... . When he finished speaking, he heard no one in praise of his address that his toast sounded amazing! Diana was always afraid of a rejection of men are in love. Therefore, she never said "I love you" first. Each novel, with each new man she was burning with desire to tell it to him, but every time I stopped myself and felt guilty about what can not do it. Her tormented fears that once she tells her lover it was immediately cast. And each of its novel ends in nothing. In one of the novels, she decided not to hide their fears and after a heated caresses, lying on his chest favorite, she said softly chuckling: "I'm so tired of being afraid to utter a single phrase unpretentious. You be quiet, but I will say that ..." she turned to look him straight in the eye and said, "I love you." And while he did not have time to come round - lightly kissed his lips and then lay down on his chest. Dispelling the mystery cult of the complex allows us to weaken it more than half. If we apply this technique all the time, the complex will weaken more and more. Although the first few times it will be very scared to do it. But later, the complex will have to be afraid to be talked about. And it will hide and seek another place to stay. But not in the man who did not put any penny:) Step 2: Convert As already mentioned, and the complex - it is part of our personality. And to get rid of it forever, you need to find him a worthy replacement. Our personality - is filled vessel, which can be integrated, if poured out of him part of the contents. Be sure to fill it with something else. And possibly better quality than what has been poured. To understand what can be replaced by their complex, you need to look beyond the boundaries of his perception of the present moment. In other words, imagine yourself the way you want to see without this stupid complex.