And the issues rejected by the partner ...

And the issues rejected by a partner, "How do you want me to become (s)", "How do I change that you loved me (s)" - belong to the same category as the question "What is your ideal "but have absolutely no sense. Because the words of the full range of feelings, which wants to feel - not an easy task. The task of virtually no lift for the person who does not go into research and reflection. He just wants to be happy! He wants to see beside me a man who will make it so. And this man will be ideal for him! It was this man give him those feelings, which he desperately needs. And to understand what people need - the goal is much more feasible than to understand his ideals. The first electronic publication (source): http://www.senses.ru/view_news.phtml?ID=6601

Self-immolation of women

DM Mukhamadiev Department of Psychiatry of the Tajik State Medical University. Abu Ali ibn Sina, Dushanbe analysis of current literature shows that among the various forms of mental reaction in response to a complex of environmental factors has an important place autoaggressive behavior [1, 4 - 6]. Growing interest in the issue of mental responses to various external stressful situation due to the expansion of such extreme events as natural disasters, technological disasters, armed conflicts. It should be noted that the need for a differentiated approach to the formation of suicidal behavior in response to various emergency situations dictated by several factors that differentiate from the other armed conflicts listed traumatic extreme situations. Primarily this is due to the long time and tense in the rate of exposure psychotraumatic situation involving the threat of an individual's life and his entourage. In addition, such a sign as a strengthening in times of armed conflict socio-economic crises, is a factor that certainly exacerbates the dynamics of these states. According to WHO (1993), people living in areas of armed conflict, are the most vulnerable populations. At the same time, the available data [5], during the First World War the number of suicides has decreased in comparison with the peaceful time in Japan at 9%, Sweden 7%, Russia 25 - 30%. However, these rates increase during economic downturns. The armed conflict in Tajikistan in the period from 1992 to 1993 was characterized by the formation of specific forms of reaction to an extreme situation, is largely determined by ethnocultural characteristics of the mental response of the population. Study of motivational factors influencing the formation of autoagressive behavior, showed an increase in suicides in response to the motives that are directly related to response to having a place of extreme situation. As noted by MG Gulyamov (1994), "a civil war in Tajikistan has become a testing ground for the neuro-psychic activity of man."