The girl suddenly starts to close ...

The best approach to treating this disease is a combined method, which combines both psycho-therapy and psychotherapy - symptomatic and depth in different sizes. This will reduce the period of medication and provide more emotional support from the therapist. In any case, it is worth remembering that the panic attacks, as well as any other stressful disease completely curable with the joint efforts of the therapist and patient. Center for Mental Health Alliance. "

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Children always grow unexpectedly. In maturing daughter appears a lot of psychological problems. How would they react? Advising counselor, a leading women's training of the Moscow Institute of group and family psychotherapy and psychology Alexander A. Suchkov. Situation: my daughter appeared secrets. Mom is worried that it loses contact with the child. Usually it occurs in eleven years. The girl suddenly starts to close the door to his room for long periods sitting in meditation and wagging their pigtails, says not everyone is talking about with her friends. It's starting to cause concern - "a child that something is wrong, I lose contact." In fact, at this moment my mother begins to include separation anxiety, but she does not know. What to itself that something is wrong - that idea did not come to mind. Actually parting with age and with children his own age, too, is a difficult thing. We are experiencing anxiety, fear of the future and sense of self-emptiness: what will I do? At this point, my mother usually begin to demand candor from a child: a daughter, tell me, I understand, only to share with me, do not leave me behind. A child is in response perplexed: what are you, Mom, did something happen? A sense of guilt: perhaps I'm not very good daughter. So you first stone of the teenage future conflicts. Exit. Sensible Mom, which, unfortunately, a little comfortable with the dochkinym secrets. Instead they get out in any way, they say: if you have a need to talk, you should know that I will listen to you. This is the best option. Well, if my mother tells about her experience, even if it is not the most fun. It will remind her daughter about her mother as a living person. After my mother for the child until adolescence - being omnipotent. And she herself this omnipotence too accustomed. And it is necessary to wean, to move in a different status, devote more time to myself as a woman. And think about who you are now able to be for my daughter? What you want and that should tell her? Situation: My mother has not developed personal life. And she does not want his daughter repeated her mistakes. The more you customize a child that he must be all different, the higher the likelihood of recurrence of the daughter of your destiny. Moreover, paradoxical as it is, but the same effect leads and setting the girls: I do not want to live like my mother. In 90% of cases, it repeats the mother's life scenario.