We're seeing a lot of anger, and he ...

We're seeing a lot of anger, and he seems the most prevalent emotion in the grief of this kind. We know that anger is also growing ravages of disease, neurological complications, duration of disease and, of course, disability. Along with the anger, despair - the second word, most often come to mind in this regard. These repeated losses leave a person feeling as if he had deleted all the pre-existing emotions. Characteristic syndrome of multiple losses There are many symptoms that we associate with pathological grief. These include a heightened sense of guilt or rage, intensified the physical symptoms, denial, delayed reaction, destructive to themselves behavior. Most of the time these symptoms are not recognized. People do not realize that they do and do not realize that this is due to the continuing grief. Many people do not believe others when they talk about so many losses, and some time wondering how those can be so familiar, until it begins to happen to them. Some people try to cope with the problem, looking at the positive side of what they are familiar with so many people. They feel that they love themselves and are loved by some truly wonderful people. Often there are complaints about the lack of affection toward others, including a reluctance to make new friends. When this happens, people feel more isolated, and then weakens his support system, and he finds himself in a trap - a rotating wheel of the senses, even more lonely and isolated, afraid to go outside. We also know that there are other losses: loss of sexual freedom, hope for the future, dreams to live and grow old with her partner, loss of stability of employment, loss of family support, loss of privacy and personal power, because often, when it became known diagnosis of HIV infection , a person deprived of privacy, against his will. Premature sad Premature sadness - a term used to describe the mourning before the actual death. The term also applies to the situation with the apparent lack of reaction to grief when death has already happened. We know that death from AIDS is rarely a sudden and prolonged nature of this disease predisposes to the development of premature sadness or "suicide" of grief. So far, no clear evidence that it facilitates the mourning after the death of loved ones but it can affect the depth of feeling. It is also important to assess a person's ability to cope with problems, suicidal risk and other destructive tendencies. Of course, it is important to reconnect people with support services. With all the many losses short period of time is desirable to understand in detail each of the losses, finding out what place in the patient's life took a deceased person. For grieving people is important to find a place where they can, do not hesitate to share your feelings to yourself to better understand the loss.