Thing, according to the teenager lifting ...

The thing is, according to the teenager lifting a credibility in the eyes (no matter what), it becomes very important, but in the eyes of parents such a choice seems a complete nonsense, since for them it is meaningless, so it's difficult to scrounge money for the purchase. This makes an insurmountable conflict to go on stealing. Eagle Eye Teenage Racket: Children grow up, grow and their needs. The easiest way: Take away the younger. Well, not directly. Television teaches us how to do it: with a small charge for the "protection and security." "Protection racket", as a hidden way to suppress the weak strong very common in urban schools. For example, Max saw off the girl, which he really liked. But this girl liked and Vetalyu. Vetal with friends thrashed Max. Max asked for support to older, they moved the deal in the commercial mainstream: you give us money, and if you to someone bugging you, we will deal with him harshly and immediately. With Vetalem really "understood" fast-scared. But Max was reminded of the payment. Max began to beg for money from my mother, ostensibly for the purchase of ultra-featured computer game. But my mother promised to give money to pay. Money for the promised "protection racket" had expired, were appointed penalty interest, Max began to steal money from his mother's purse. Once again delayed the payment for "protection racket", while the young racketeers were fined: Max was supposed to pay their mobile phone. Parents have noticed the loss of money, loss of phone and only then became possible to discuss the situation entirely and seek a way out. The first step in solving the problems parents have done very competently. On the fact of extortion have been issued statements to the police, and psychological problem behaviors Max we face together: parents, Max and your humble servant. When a teen makes stealing drug addiction - another group of reasons for stealing. This is a whole separate issue and we will discuss the themes of our mailing issues on drug addiction. Now we are interested in unmotivated Theft. TIPS FOR PARENTS: What to do when a family faces the unmotivated Theft, as a form of behavioral addiction? - On the fact of the theft to your son or daughter need to sit quietly and very discreetly look around. Tears, hand-wringing, name calling and billing of personal assessments - are useless. Tantrums and moralizing is not needed, they worsen the situation. So, if your child has stolen money, does not mean that he is thorough scoundrel. Statements like: "Your life will end in jail!" - Further add fuel to the fire and increase the alienation between parents and teens. Physical punishment and house arrest - from the arsenal of the last century. Such tactics as extreme, which should be deleted immediately. Unmotivated Theft - not a reason to put a cross on their child's future. - The other extreme: to portray the complacency and make forks that everything is fine and well - also exacerbate the situation.