Saturday, 14 May 2011

And more and more. I'm afraid ...

And more and more. I'm afraid ...

And more and more. I am afraid of this little vrushi grow more shameless liar. " Mythomania nourish children's dreams. Nature has generously endowed of all children's diverse talents. They express it in drawings, artefacts, in modeling, in an oral art, and music. If the child is older, let them write, if not become prose, fiction, detektivschikom, then learn to write competently. Energy children's imagination should be directed to the creativity that was good for both the child and for others. Small child can easily be confused, where fantasy and reality where. Children are easily wishful thinking. Grandparents, mothers, fathers delighted when the kid gives his next masterpiece, including violent fantasies in the form of interesting stories invented. This positive parental stimulation establishes the child's way of gaining the sympathy and love through fantasy, fiction, lie. Boundaries for children's creativity and imagination do not. Child continues to lie to obtain a reward attention, surprise, laughter, joy and anger. He continues to play the role of runaway dreamer. This way of beginning to assert itself becomes a habit and then to dependence. All life takes place under the banner of "the first of April." This method takes root, grows deeper, is defined by a line of conduct. But this method does not satisfy the true needs of the child, adolescent, rather the contrary ... creates conflicts, forms a frivolous attitude to themselves, even more order: a catastrophic loses its credibility, loses in their eyes self-esteem. Mother Regina is not worried about nothing, she saw in the behavior of her daughter not a good trend. I, as a specialist confirmed the beginning of the formation of behavioral dependence in the form of mythomania. was prepared and conducted psychological correction programs such behavior in Regina. Because of this, the behavior of Regina succumbed to a good correction. Otherwise, the Regina could form this behavioral addiction. mythomania It is characterized by various kinds of scams, of whom we know from the criminal news. Naturally, Mother Regina asked me: "What I to do? "Then I told my mother Regina and I advise all parents are confronted with this situation: 1. Do not let us deceive ourselves, do not allow to be in the role of the deceived. The secret of the credibility of children's fantasies that children themselves believe in what they come up with themselves. If the looming trend of pathological lying, cheerleaders, especially when the fact was found lying, but the child stubbornly continues to insist on the right. 2. guard when the child tries to defend himself, blaming his guilt at his friend, the circumstances, the phenomenon of nature or any animal. Children without extreme necessity not a "con" of each other and their pets from pets. 3. guard when the child is convinced that he believed, then he tries to compensate for his guilt and begins ingratiating and help around the house and becomes pokazushno " kind and gentle ".

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