I even thought cry, because before the split with a cute "lark." All he was good: a smile, shoulders and salary. One bad - are cut down early. Come from work, dinner, sit on the toilet for half an hour with Sorokin, watch the news and - "Good Night, Bunny!". Bunny! Owl I - uh, uh! At work me and said: "Get your rest - will come." And I do not understand his beloved. Well, how so? Life is just beginning, and he wishes to defect! Also makes the claim: what it is I, say, late flick computer keyboard and clap the refrigerator! And yourself? Get up at seven o'clock and began charging the fuck skillfully and with ardor by Vysotsky: "If you're in your apartment - Get on the floor, three or four ..." Horror. Of course, we parted. And how not to leave, if crossed with a man for a maximum of one hour per day? Yes, and you spend that hour then, to explain to him what a fool he. "You do not know what this morning!" - He shouted to me. "Have you ever seen the night!" - I shot back. Blame, as always, was not. And we're not alone - many have. American psychologists and sociologists conducting another study on divorce, learned that one of the main causes of divorce among Americans is no difference in age or intellect, not the differences of the characters and even adultery, and the mismatch of biorhythms. This mismatch leads to alienation in the first pair, and then to sever relations. In Russia, such studies have been conducted, but the conflict between the "owls" and "larks" we have clearly no less. And people are hoping to save the relationship, usually in one way: remake of his partner. Particularly zealous "larks." They are absolutely sure that there is only one correct way of life - one that they conduct. After all, they are "sun meet" and is named "God gives." So they advised their "wrong" half to brush your teeth at ten o'clock, to go to bed at ten fifteen and take the sheep up in the morning. But back in 2001 were able to identify a gene that is inherent in it, "Owls": "gene that causes hereditary syndrome of a long phase of sleep." Japanese - smart guys! - Concluded that "owls" in any case not have to retrain and induce in them a sense of guilt, provoking a nervous breakdown. "Owl" - not lazy, just more convenient for them to work at another time. Not all scientists, however, agree with this theory and continue to persist, arguing that genes has got nothing to do with it, but "Owl" - is simply undisciplined "larks." Senior Researcher, Institute of Higher Nervous Activity and Neurophysiology, Vladimir Dorokhov believes that the truth lies in between. Yes, a gene discovered and with it you can now work. But you can not say that man is strictly programmed to be "owl" or "lark." Important not only heredity but also living conditions, life goals, which may vary. Under these man adjusts his regime, opting for a more comfortable schedule. What if the people living under one roof, these graphs do not match? Psychologists do not keep repeating that the main thing - do not follow stereotypes.
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