Children also may feel that they will die.

This response may or meet the child at the time, or raise questions about our own death. We are required to honest, peaceful and simple answers. If we're talking to very young children, we must remember that only a limited amount of information can be assimilated by them at times. A child can seriously listen to our answers and happily gallop off with the words: "Okay, but I will never die.." We do not need to try to refute this claim, or to think that our efforts are wasted. We facilitate the child an opportunity to revisit this issue again when he needed our answers. Another example of a suitable opportunity to discuss these issues with their children may be a situation when famous people die and their deaths, funerals and general reaction to widely publicized in the media. When someone dies famous, children inevitably see on TV any transfer associated with this event, or hear a mention on the radio, at school or in our conversations. Anyway what happened is hard to ignore. This is a natural moment that we can use to give children the necessary information, or to correct some misconceptions about death, they may have to be. If we are dealing with a violent death, such as murder, we can use this as a good opportunity to say something calming to children about their safety. Playing in the violence that is becoming common, everyday occurrence, and violent death of a well-known person or idol can encourage children to confirm their fears or distorted perceptions associated with the dangers that exist around them. As a result, children may begin to worry that "bad" people or "bad" people's feelings can not be controlled. The child may want to hear that many people are responsible for their actions and not kill each other, although, of course, anyone at times feel bad or angry. DEATH IN THE FAMILY (SOME CHILDREN'S REACTIONS) Guilt Some studies have shown that when children are experiencing the death of close relatives such as brother or sister, or parents, they often feel guilty. Despite the fact that many of us feel guilt when we lose someone who loved little children is especially difficult to understand causal relationships. They think that somehow they were the cause of death. Maybe their angry thoughts caused the death. Some children may see death as a punishment: "Mama died and left me because I was bad." Children can help overcome feelings of guilt, assuring them that they are always loved and still love. May be particularly helpful explanation of the circumstances of death. Children also may feel that they will die. The idea that death is the punishment must never be supported. Reassure your child that this death does not mean that other loved ones will soon die. A child may not know how to behave after the death of a close. Encourage your child to talk about his feelings and that he had been frank with you, but tells the child that he must feel.