Victims of love-sickness

More often see comedies or read a book from the world's library of humor. This will help to see the problem from a caricatured form. Mentally bring your own absurdity and laugh at him. Gay people are much happier and more successful in life than the dark, devoid of a sense of humor. Do not go in the wake of fear. He is a bad adviser. Excessive caution - this is a hidden fear of failure. If you do not learn to take risks, does not succeed. Take the example of men, they are not afraid to fill his bumps and often do more to life. In the words of Ivan Bunin, "most at risk who are not at risk." Natalia MAKSIMOVA

Victims of love-sickness

Sergey older than Amy, at four, their romance began when she studied in the second year, and he - in graduate school. , Two feelings were mutual, Sveta was dreaming about getting married, and then Sergei somehow lost interest in our daughter: meetings became less frequent, he appeared to other women. No, we're at it do not take offense: it shines nothing promised. But the light ... all these seven years she lived only for them. Evenings with the phone: Call waiting. At his first call (and it rarely happens) bears, as if on wings, spends the night with him, comes back happy, but the next call is heard soon. We, and he himself Serge, convinces her to meet with someone else, but it is about this and not hear. She was calling somewhere invited, but she refuses. Says: "Either wait Sergei, either one will stay!". At first light, even proud of her passion, thought that was capable of great love. Those friends who first fell in love with one, then another, simply despised. Now she seemed to begin to understand that her passion for Sergei, a man in general, indifferent to it - it is not love, but something is painful. For God's sake, help her daughter, not the strength to see her suffering, right, and indeed remain single ... "Light was sweet and charming young woman. As it turned out, she herself was trying to "break away" from Sergei, met with other men, entered them in an intimate relationship, but in her own words, "absolutely did not feel anything." At the same time, the proximity to Sergei gives her great pleasure and leads to a bright, strong orgasmic discharge. Sergei she "burned with desire", an absolutely versatile, ready for any form of sex, but with others ... Once she found her beloved man extraordinary, exceptional and now realizes that the man he is rather ordinary, though not bad. But to get rid of a surprisingly strong attraction to him - both spiritual and physical attraction - can not, even though he wants. And the years go by, and her life is empty and time to create a family is running out. But the light has nothing to do with them. Already very well aware that it is not love it, but some kind of morbid dependence on Sergei, from his voice, hands and body - but the other men for her to continue to exist. Of desire, born illness ... "Women, like light," fixated "on one man (often indifferent to them), reason well aware that the relationship should be stopped, but unable to do so, a great many.