This is a defect of personality, when the money ...

This is a defect of personality, when the money in lieu of all: the joy of life and human feelings, pose an insurmountable barrier between a miser and the people around him. In "The Miserly Knight, Alexander Sergeyevich Pushkin compares pathological stinginess and hoarding in strength with sensuality maniacal sadists: We are told doctors: there are people finding pleasure in killing. When I key in the lock puts, the same I feel like I feel they must, thrust into the victim a knife: a pleasure and fear together. You know the phenomenon of Midas? God Dionysus gave the king of the Phrygians ability to turn his touch any object into gold. So what? And what a gift proved fatal: in the gold turned into food, which he picked up. On this occasion, in Ovid's Metamorphoses, wrote: "Struck by this unexpected disaster, and the rich and the poor at the same time, he longs to escape his treasures, and hates what was hungry." Clinical observation: Male Eugene, 58 years old, big businessman, his wife Elena, 40 years old. Elena it was the first marriage, her husband - the second. His sons from his first marriage Eugene gave the apartment. Appearances for the people - a generous and caring father. But within the family, Evgeny control every step in the everyday expenses gave money only in the presence of checks, requiring a report for each spent crown. Thereby restrict it everywhere: to go to the hairdresser or to advise her daughter in a family doctor, this required special permission from her husband. All attempts to bring her husband to the psychological work on your problem - have been rejected because the problem itself, and Eugene did not recognize, was "invented." And yet the drug was found, and the radical: a divorce. Helen went with her daughter to her parents and returned to his old job, because patience with bullying on himself was exhausted. "Ambition, greed, indecision, fear, lust" - Montaigne wrote, - "never leave the person with the change of place. They pursued him even in a monastery, even in the shelter of philosophy. Neither the desert, not even a rock, no hair shirt (rope) does not relieve them. " 2. Money, as a means of suppression. In this embodiment, the one who uses the money thus can be considered a domestic tyrant. Money can make grown-up children or husband, but they still are in the hands of the tyrant. Tyrants are stingy with regard to the issue of pocket money by buying on the kindness, compassion or understanding. This manifestation may be absent completely. Suppressed in the monetary sense, family members begin to resist: forced to do nest egg from this financial war in the family even more hardened. Tirana, tight-fisted money, forced to walk on all households strunochke. This suppression causes children matured, along with the end of school quickly leave the parental home. Women-tiranok husbands usually spirals into alcohol dependency. Moreover, the wife skuperdyayki unable to understand that the reason for all the family troubles comes from their pathological avarice.