These professionals are investigated in detail ...

A woman caught up in their own passions. We also need certain features of a woman, first of all - lack of flexibility of the psyche. Castle "works" reliability due to additional factors: uncertainty in its appeal, the fear of tying up a new relationship. Besides building a new attachment requires a large expenditure of mental and emotional effort, and where to take them, if all the senses, all the energy potential given to another person? A large group of therapists believed that "love sickness" in general nothing to do with love, not, as a sexual deviation (SD), and specific women: for men it almost does not occur. These specialists are studied in detail the fact that an intimate relationship characterized by extraordinary excitement, passion, excitement over the years, not diminished, and increasing, that is typical for sexual deviancy. At the same time they have sex with other men (and trying to escape from dependency, and after breaking dependence) radically, qualitatively and quantitatively different from sex with the object of fixation. These differences as global, that practically it is a split personality (of course, only in the sexual sphere). This circumstance is akin to the behavior of sexual deviants: a fetish, for example, there are wives and mistresses, but with them they do not have a hundredth part of that passion, some feel, clutching a coveted object of the female toilet. (Incidentally, the degree of excitation in such cases, several researchers measured not only by self-report, self-esteem on certain scales, but also the-art electronic methods - from the polygraph to the EEG - and the magnitude of the observed differences really was about 100 times!). "It's not love - they say psychotherapists who hold this point of view - these hands, this body, the smell evoke a 150% dependent on her sexuality, and other hands (even more tender!), Another body does not evoke nothing, absolutely nothing . It is this sverhizbiratelnaya reaction is the basis of sexual deviation. In some official American textbooks of borderline mental disorders a love relationship is placed in the chapter "Sexual Deviation". If a love relationship - gross sexual deviation, rather than personality traits, then it must be treated very differently than we do today. Another group of therapists, mainly English and Dutch, led by a brilliant psychiatrist, Anthony Clarke, says that a love relationship - only one manifestation of such a common disorder among young women - a soft, endogenous depression, and treat these clients need it for depression. New connection prevents women engage less sverhfiksatsiya many inherent depression reduction of mental and emotional activity, and commit itself to one man - is also characteristic of depression and described Avicenna "grasping" for all the old, familiar, though quite inconvenient (depressive patients are extremely tied to the usual attire).