Wednesday, 4 May 2011

That is not to be seen, so ...

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And if we can not abandon the benefits of civilization, then one way out - to learn with the help of science to defend itself against the creation of its same problems. As Aristotle said, "reasonable chasing not for that, which is nice, but for the fact that eliminates the trouble."

Psychoanalysis "Infectious fears"


How to beat a sitting inside a little frightened little man? "I was faced with a problem that exhaust me mentally and physically. I work at the firm for eight years and is well vnikla all the nuances of the case . But the next time you raise the general manager was appointed my colleague - Oleg. Work under the direction of Oleg, I can not, because he, sorry, you fool. Fear is left on the street without a livelihood literally paralyzes me. Now, I sat out on medical leave. What to do ?. Julia T., Moscow Letter commented Ph.D., professor of Yakut State University Lyudmila Petrova Timofeevna. The winner gets all the first thing you need to do is step on the throat of his own fear and stop being afraid. When you're able to talk sensibly, you'll find that your competitor, and now the boss, you will create such conditions that you leave on their own. He understands: you - his potential enemies. But first, how to pat your nerves. So think seriously, and whether you should continue to destroy their nervous system and self-esteem. Better recognize myself frankly, at this stage, you lose, and will now be more reasonable to minimize losses. Of course, the final decision to accept you, but, apparently, your main problem to date - is to overcome your fear. You do a great expert in his field and will be able to find decent work for you. Why are men so often costs much more competent and capable persons of the female sex? The reasons are many, but one of the key - is inherent in the ladies fear of success. This typically follows women's fear of the fear of life. Fear of life is perhaps the most powerful, sits deep in the subconscious of each of us. But some overcome it easily, others - with difficulty. Many women lose precisely because of their conscious and unconscious desires often do not coincide. There is internal conflict. Such women tend to underestimate their own value, to dwell on their mistakes, afraid to make decisions, afraid to stand out from the crowd not to go "on the line of fire." That is not to be seen, and therefore not subjected to any kind of criticism. If you do not bring the case to the end and give up without a fight - that is the case. Friends or foes? "Being a slave to fear - is the worst form of slavery" - said Bernard Shaw. And really, what could be worse than the terror itself. Have you noticed that particularly active fears plague us in the evening or at night. We are tossing and turning in his warm bed, drinking valerian, mentally bringing bad situation to its logical conclusion. Moreover, seeks to present the worst developments. And covered with clammy sweat.

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