Stress-resistant people in this ...

For example, the group leader, whose information has not been performed, coming home, "pours" negative emotions at home. Stress-resistant people in this situation led to behave differently - he would find comfort in communicating with his family. Stress - is a process, and therefore, the right will belong to him, left the same - adjust to a way out of it, because he result is what counts, not the process. A rationality-irrationality - it is the ability to quickly switch from one to another. What many do not realize the extent of their resistance to stress and often leads to overload and confusion surrounding. Recruiter or psychologist will be able to take this into account and finds ways to overcome adverse situations in relation to a specific person. This will reduce the time for restoration of health.

The nervous

As for the detailed examination of the doctors did not find the cause of the disease state, they say with a wise view: "It's on your nerves." What is the connection between nerves and diseases, argues Ph.D., leading expert of the Moscow Institute of group and family therapy Ekaterina Mikhailova. Somehow to me at the reception came to a young woman with a rather strange problem. The gist of it was what it is. Dame two years, married, a great relationship with my husband, really want a child. But - does not work. Spouses have been a thorough examination, both: for me, this fact was confirmed that the desire to truly reciprocal. After all, men tend to be very resistant to this kind of manipulation, their logic is simple: "It's your feminine things - you and bit you, but I have everything in order." I confess I was confused: it was not clear at what here I am. I began gently questioning the woman about the different circumstances of her life. And suddenly it curious thing: it turned out, her grandmother and mother had similar difficulties with the birth of the baby - with no apparent medical pathology of pregnancy and does not occur. In this case, and his grandmother, and her mother secretly had the feeling that the pregnancy right now is not very helpful. A visitor to my impression that this is a feature of their family, that women in their family for whatever reasons, the time can not give birth. But then all getting better - and pregnancy without complications, and a healthy baby. In principle, the lady wanted one thing - that it all happened quickly. In the family history and had to investigate. The heroine of the story prevented pregnancy psychological scheme, so to speak, "a family tradition." Our job was to save a young woman from the stereotype - in our family all suffer for a long time before getting pregnant. " As you understand, if not soon lovely daughter was born, I would not become a story to tell. In many families, when people can not decide to divorce him or stay together, just, and the child is born: time pregnancies has solved this problem for a woman. Many of the ladies said afterwards that at first feel trapped, but then comes a relief to get rid of painful hesitation: Thank God, everything is clear, the body decided for me.