They're going from a cold, indifferent, inhospitable home. To catch the moment in a relationship, cold, and try to understand each other. If it is very difficult to understand, seek a good psychologist. - Many women feel that their main rival - the work. Maybe something they recommend? - Do not harass myself and my husband. If a person earns money, if he painted all the time on the clock and it happens a little at home, a wife must do all that the family has become "an island" problem-free, comfort and peace. Do not ask her husband about his affairs - he has enough work and worries. Do not cut that does not help around the house - it is better to hire a housekeeper, if very difficult. Pays little time for children - free from all that hinders communication with them. Many men today is a difficult and dangerous work, and women have exacerbated the difficulties his stupid attitude. I say one of his friend, whose husband is a big businessman: "You just think, tomorrow it can kill, and you pilish it!" Another mistake: quite often we women think that if they have "the stamp in the passport, then the more they worry about. Home go to zatrapeze and work - in the ceremonial form. Like, what for her husband to try. Although it was his score is really important. Moreover, it is often not a lack of funds. One of my very wealthy patient walks through the house in a jogging suit most shirpotrebnogo species. I asked her: "Do not meet her husband's home in an elegant dress?" And it is not necessary. Such an attitude towards herself and her husband - a sign of hidden depression, indifference to the world. It happens that my husband almost did not notice how much it is dressed wife. But this does not mean that we should not try. The man did not really pay attention to details, but what you look well-groomed, he will notice. So keep your appearance at a level that will allow you to feel beautiful and elegant. One to do this every week to visit a beauty salon, the other - to buy a new scarf, the third - to swim in the pool or dye your hair. But the feeling that you care about yourself, just reflect on your appearance, in his movements, his eyes glitter. And changes in your appearance will be noticed. - Most disappointing that men can not take care, do not have small courtesies that are so easily can make a woman happy for at least an hour a day. Is it possible that they teach? - Can. And it is not difficult. You do not need to consider tokens of themselves for granted, and encouraged for every small step in this direction. And over the opposite situation banter, not to lose a sense of humor. For example, the husband brought a birthday bouquet of gladioli, which you can not stand. He approached the case like a man: in his view, the larger the bouquet, the better. Do you like little tea roses. What should I do? Of course, not to get upset and even more so not to show it - is still praise, because people have tried to make it better, in your wisdom. And on occasion to tell what colors are more like them.
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